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For decades, I felt being in the minority, I had to go the extra mile, do the extra thing, perform better than the best person did. For what exactly?

Employers tend to take, take and take. Whether that be my time, stressing me mental, or not fully supporting me from a Leadership perspective. You know, it is time for me to fight back.

In short, merely starting to take care of me. Thus, not being overworked, and having a real life/work balance, versus a work/work balance.
 
I used a render farm for the first time today. I think I'm in love.

It took me an hour to render a sub-HD video in the background on my own computer, but the farm rendered the same thing at 4K in an a few minutes. And that was only because I chose one of the lower core options!
 
I used a render farm for the first time today. I think I'm in love.

It took me an hour to render a sub-HD video in the background on my own computer, but the farm rendered the same thing at 4K in an a few minutes. And that was only because I chose one of the lower core options!


Think about how fast you'll be able to grow carrots!
 
Thoughtless people local edition:

Some remodeler rang our bell looking for work yesterday. From behind our closed front door I said, "No thank you" and closed the main door. Equally dumb, the ambulette driver who brought mom home wanted to throw his rubber gloves out in our indoor trash. I told him "Use the outdoor garbage right there please."

And the visiting nurse service scoffed on the phone, when I asked what kind of protection will the visiting nurse have when she visits our house tomorrow?

When our county virus count has doubled since Tuesday, not going to take chances.

For decades, I felt being in the minority, I had to go the extra mile, do the extra thing, perform better than the best person did. For what exactly?

Employers tend to take, take and take. Whether that be my time, stressing me mental, or not fully supporting me from a Leadership perspective. You know, it is time for me to fight back.

In short, merely starting to take care of me. Thus, not being overworked, and having a real life/work balance, versus a work/work balance.
Please do this. I learned the hard way that work and life stress can wreak havoc on your body and mind.

No job is worth that.

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Allowing mom to get pissed off that I can not be as helpful as I was before I fractured my arm. She threw a box with pajamas aside when I told her I could not shelve it.

Will have to hold her to her word of working on PT for at least a half an hour here daily.

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Am so glad my last day with this current job is this Monday. Remote work enforcement, and/or options pushed my last day up to this Monday.

Wishing everyone here health and strength.
 
Thoughtless people local edition:

Some remodeler rang our bell looking for work yesterday. From behind our closed front door I said, "No thank you" and closed the main door. Equally dumb, the ambulette driver who brought mom home wanted to throw his rubber gloves out in our indoor trash. I told him "Use the outdoor garbage right there please."

And the visiting nurse service scoffed on the phone, when I asked what kind of protection will the visiting nurse have when she visits our house tomorrow?

When our county virus count has doubled since Tuesday, not going to take chances.


Please do this. I learned the hard way that work and life stress can wreak havoc on your body and mind.

No job is worth that.

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Allowing mom to get pissed off that I can not be as helpful as I was before I fractured my arm. She threw a box with pajamas aside when I told her I could not shelve it.

Will have to hold her to her word of working on PT for at least a half an hour here daily.

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Am so glad my last day with this current job is this Monday. Remote work enforcement, and/or options pushed my last day up to this Monday.

Wishing everyone here health and strength.
Hope the new job and having your Mum home won’t prove to be stressful.
Glad we have plenty of soap and hand gel on hand.
 
In the midst of everything else, it’s kidding season here on the farm.
Feeding and watering the mamas, and especially playing with the baby goats, is a great way to start the day!
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Is everyone being spammed by COVID-19 email?

Since yesterday I’ve received policy emails from two grocery stores, yahoo, my electric company, my furnace/air conditioning monitoring company, Best Buy, local library, post office, MoneyGram, Wall Street Journal, and American Express.
 
Is everyone being spammed by COVID-19 email?

Since yesterday I’ve received policy emails from two grocery stores, yahoo, my electric company, my furnace/air conditioning monitoring company, Best Buy, local library, post office, MoneyGram, Wall Street Journal, and American Express.

So far just from the local paper and from Panera (annoying since I never go there and only ended up on their list bc someone gave me a $5 gift cert one year for my birthday... and like an idiot I used it and registered so probably a zillion companies own my nonexistent predilection for huge cookies and muffins).

Been waiting for something from couriers like "due to our inability to fly really big planes from home,,,,"
 
Everybody is going mental. In my region I don't think there are a lot of people with the virus.
 
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What's on my mind? Irrational human behaviour…

This morning I went for my usual Saturday shop — planning the usual essentials. Nothing much… cat food, a bag of cat litter, peanut butter some eggs etc… and yet… and yet… as I walked into Waitrose and saw the empty shelves — loo rolls — gone; Soap and cleaner — gone; flour — gone; Eggs — gone; milk and dairy — if not all gone, definitely running low… I caught myself in a rising panic.
As the saying goes, I "talked myself down off the ledge" and went about my business as usual. But I was struck by that flash of irrational fear that, OMG! we're running out… gotta do something.

Imagine the response if this was something akin to an airborne Ebola? A true Black Death.

Anyway. Strange times we live in.
 
Everybody is going mental. In my region I don't think there are a lot of people with the virus.

1. Very little testing has occurred. Most people who get it have mild symptoms (or none).

2. The point of social distancing and event cancellation is to suppress new cases and prevent overwhelming of hospital resources by a sudden upsurge in patients who do get gravely ill from exposure to the virus.

There's one case in my upstate NY county and none confirmed yet in two adjacent northerly counties. The colleges have switched to online-only instruction. Schools are closing in favor of online classes and reliance on free library-provided WiFi from the street for net access to remote classroom instruction for kids w/o home internet... and events of over 500 people are banned (state mandate), events of 250 to be considered a max (local request).

This disruption of ordinary life (in the boondocks no less) does not happen because anyone thinks there's really just one case in the 50k pop of my sprawling rural county. The public health authorities understand the likelihood of far higher numbers already, even as they do try to trace contacts of the one reported and confirmed case in the probably vain hope that the contacts might be in areas that can be quarantined.

There are a dozen universities in the area with downstate students who routinely travel to the city for weekends and have been doing that since last September so why not since coronavirus landed in the USA months ago.​
Hill-farming residents here stock up for over winter isolation as a matter of routine. This is the season they throng the usual end-of-winter sales at supermarkets and are now crowding in to also stock up on whatever they think makes them feel better about a possible lockdown or illness that prevents them getting to market again any time soon.​

We have no real handle yet on how many residents have the new coronavirus; it's been in community for awhile now and turns out there's a shortage of reagents for the test kits (and we may wonder if there's any real rush on the part of the administratoin to be able to get actual numbers anyway, eh?). The toolbox now is just about mitigation, it will not be possible to track and quarantine all those who are now carriers.
 
Hope the new job and having your Mum home won’t prove to be stressful.
Glad we have plenty of soap and hand gel on hand.
Seeing this as opportunities to grow, and allowing mom and I to be angry at each other. I never liked that, but we have suppressed anger that needs to come out.

Glad you have plenty of soap and hand gel too.

Saw a really great tweet regarding paper product and other shortages at big supermarkets etc.; support your local Asian grocery store. They are usually stocked and you're helping their business too.
 
What's on my mind? Irrational human behaviour…

This morning I went for my usual Saturday shop — planning the usual essentials. Nothing much… cat food, a bag of cat litter, peanut butter some eggs etc… and yet… and yet… as I walked into Waitrose and saw the empty shelves — loo rolls — gone; Soap and cleaner — gone; flour — gone; Eggs — gone; milk and dairy — if not all gone, definitely running low… I caught myself in a rising panic.
As the saying goes, I "talked myself down off the ledge" and went about my business as usual. But I was struck by that flash of irrational fear that, OMG! we're running out… gotta do something.

Imagine the response if this was something akin to an airborne Ebola? A true Black Death.

Anyway. Strange times we live in.

This morning, I headed in to the farmers' market, unusually early (by my normally tardy standards). Thus, I was there shortly after 10.00, mainly to replenish fruit, vegetables and organic, free range, eggs.

Standing at the organic meat stall/ethical, environmentally aware butcher's, I was stupefied by the order of a woman nearby, being served; firstly, she requested 5 kg of mince, (thereby, completely cleaning the stall out of mince - I had had it in mind to purchase one bag of around 500g of mince, to replace the one I have in the freezer which I intended, nay, still intend, to use in the next week or so), and asked that it be broken down into packs of sound 500g.

She then proceeded to order more than twenty chicken legs/thighs.....at which point, struggling with emotions torn between hilarity and horror, I switched off.

However, there are bright notes in all of this: My cheesemonger, who is a good friend, phoned me to check that I am okay, and offered to drop out some cheese and wine to me; an absolute gent; two of his staff are ill, and he is running around ensuring that their families have ample supplies of food and whatever other necessities are required.

@arkitect: I have found that small, local stores - and specialist shops, such as delis, cheesemongers, butchers, are more than amply stocked, with stuff such as loo paper, soap, tissue, and so on.
 
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COVID 19 is not a death sentence. If you’re over 65 and/or serious preexisting health issues then take extra precautions. Otherwise, we will be fine.

I know.
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Is everyone being spammed by COVID-19 email?

Since yesterday I’ve received policy emails from two grocery stores, yahoo, my electric company, my furnace/air conditioning monitoring company, Best Buy, local library, post office, MoneyGram, Wall Street Journal, and American Express.

Nope.
 
Not necessarily spammed with Corona emails, but I've gotten a few.

Mom and I about to nap now.

Debating to order some food in later.

I did get a chuckle from my friend's band selling signed merchandise for their "bog roll" fund. 🤣 Alas, I was too late in snagging the particular item to help pay for their necessary loo supplies, but hopefully I will pick up something else to assist.

Thankfully, NY is starting to go after these hand sanitizer and toilet paper scalpers. I think the profits they gained from being greedy bleeps should immediately go into test kits and research on the virus (and said scalpers should have their online purchasing ability banned).

Have a good afternoon and evening everyone.
 
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Went to the store today. Before me in the line to the till there was an older man who bought some general items, among them two packs of toilet paper. While I'm paying for my stuff a woman comes to the till to ask if the store has any more toilet paper anywhere because the whole isle was empty at the time. The cashier says that nope, all bought out, but then the gentleman who bought two packs says that he can give her one of the two he just bought. When the woman said she didn't have any cash on her, he told her not to worry and just take it as a gift.

It not all crazies and hoarders for profit out there, and that's pretty cool. Also pretty cool is the fact that there are already 8 people that were infected here that have now been cured. Obviously in the grand scheme of things that means little, but still nice to read some positive news every once in a while.
 
Thoughtless people local edition:

Some remodeler rang our bell looking for work yesterday. From behind our closed front door I said, "No thank you" and closed the main door. Equally dumb, the ambulette driver who brought mom home wanted to throw his rubber gloves out in our indoor trash. I told him "Use the outdoor garbage right there please."

And the visiting nurse service scoffed on the phone, when I asked what kind of protection will the visiting nurse have when she visits our house tomorrow?

When our county virus count has doubled since Tuesday, not going to take chances.


Please do this. I learned the hard way that work and life stress can wreak havoc on your body and mind.

No job is worth that.

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Allowing mom to get pissed off that I can not be as helpful as I was before I fractured my arm. She threw a box with pajamas aside when I told her I could not shelve it.

Will have to hold her to her word of working on PT for at least a half an hour here daily.

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Am so glad my last day with this current job is this Monday. Remote work enforcement, and/or options pushed my last day up to this Monday.

Wishing everyone here health and strength.

Good luck with your new job.

Re your mother, is there anyone else from whom she might heed instructions as to her daily requirements re physio?

This will be a time of adjustment for both of you and she will have to accept that the level of care - and dancing attendance on her needs that she received while in care - she received may no longer be possible, and that you have your own needs (physical, professional, psychological) that you have every right to wish to fulfil and to insist on fulfilling.

In her case, I suspect that some sort of ferocious survival instinct may have kicked in, which means that - for now - all she will be focussed on is herself, her care, and her needs, and will be genuinely incredulous that you are unable (and unwilling) to sacrifice yourself to meeting her needs.

Don't feel guilty for setting (and policing) you own boundaries; this is the price (for your mother) of you being in a position to supply the level of care that she currently receives, and is probably the price of your sanity and ensuring that you don't - as a consequence - suffer from carer burnout (which is a very real thing).
 
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