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Bah Humbug.
Don’t do Christmas either. When you lose your child both just give you reminders you’d not rather have.
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Depends - to some extent - on character and circumstances.

Some extroverts find the current conditions very trying, whereas introverts can barely mask their delight at how the world - for once - appears almost inexplicably to be in lockstep with their temperament.

I find myself almost always tired in winter, irrespective of whether I am active or not, but then, I loathe wine, and put this down to a suppressed desire to hibernate until late March.
As I’ve said before the change due to social distancing had had very little impact on me. As Mrs AFB is no longer able to do the shopping at 6 or 7 am when the shops open, you could argue social distancing has increased the amount of people she sees in a week.
 
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Weird why this particular thought sprang to mind.
But, why does doing nothing/little, make one feel so bloody tired?

not really sure. As Sherlock Holmes would say, my mind rebels at stagnation. I have to do something. I am fine sitting down studying a book all day long, but I have to do some type of work, either intellectual or physical.
 
not really sure. As Sherlock Holmes would say, my mind rebels at stagnation. I have to do something. I am fine sitting down studying a book all day long, but I have to do some type of work, either intellectual or physical.

Yes and no.

I recall visiting a monastery almost two decades ago, as part of (well, I was partly detached from/partly attached to) an ecumenical group (this was in my teaching days), visiting a number of ancient cathedrals, monastic sites and monasteries - one of those amazing, wonderfully cultured, civilised, gentle groups.

Food for the soul stuff (but there was also food for the body, ideas for the mind, congenial companionship for the heart and intellect, and alcohol for the head and liver)......

Anyway, the monks welcomed us, and treated us to tea and coffee and biscuits, and an incredibly wise, educated, but immensely spiritual monk chatted to me afterwards, advising, or counselling, gently, "don't do, - you don't always have to do - just be".
 
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Weird why this particular thought sprang to mind.
But, why does doing nothing/little, make one feel so bloody tired?

I hear ya. The last couple of days I've been a madman in the yard, trimming lots of trees, some major stuff with a chainsaw (electric), ladder, then cutting down the decent sized stuff for wood for the fire pit, I was totally worn out but in a totally different, but infinitely better way than the worn out from doing nothing feel ...
 
Yes and no.

I recall visiting a monastery almost two decades ago, as part of (well, I was partly detached from/partly attached to) an ecumenical group (this was in my teaching days), visiting a number of ancient cathedrals, monastic sites and monasteries - one of those amazing, wonderfully cultured, civilised, gentle groups.

Food for the soul stuff (but there was also food for the body, ideas for the mind, congenial companionship for the heart and intellect, and alcohol for the head and liver)......

Anyway, the monks welcomed us, and treated us to tea and coffee and biscuits, and an incredibly wise, educated, but immensely spiritual monk chatted to me afterwards, advising, gently, "don't do, - you don't always have to do - just be".

Absolutely, and great point! I already pointed out the beauty of just being, and slowing down. However, I’d hardly call it stagnation of the mind, it’s a different mindset than “doing nothing” as the OP probably intended (otherwise he wouldn’t feel tired).
However, amazing point and I agree wholeheartedly.
 
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When I get myself into a natural setting, even in a suburban area green belt, 3 times a week for 1-1.5 hours, (as long as the YMCA is closed and I can’t swim), I revel in Nature’s Cathedral, can almost pretend I’m alone, when bicyclists are not whizzing by, and can almost see it as if for the first time.

A repetitive expressed feeling. ;)

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Sorry to hear, mine was on Wednesday and I didn't celebrate, maybe later. Happy birthday to Mr. Septembersrain.

Happy Belated Birthday!

I'm wondering what it'll be like in September, for my birthday. I'm definitely not going to ask for anything. We're trying to save every penny we can. The housing situation is complicated with our complex sold and our neighbors above being louder than ever.

Yep, we need to focus on getting a house or manufactured home before May 2021 when our lease it up.
 
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I've got an old friend from university whose name is April and her birthday is in April. Nearly five decades later and she still gets told jokes. Strangers have been asking her, according to her, since she was able to walk and talk.
 
When I get myself into a natural setting, even in a suburban area green belt, 3 times a week for 1-1.5 hours, (as long as the YMCA is closed and I can’t swim), I revel in Nature’s Cathedral and can almost pretend I’m alone, when bicyclists are not whizzing by, and almost can see it as if for the first time.

A repetitive expressed feeling. ;)

That’s beautiful. I may have to get the courage to wake up before dawn and walk to the little brook a few blocks away. There are too many dog owners here and given most people do not wear masks etc. I’ve been reluctant and I need more exercise.

Had an awful first month review at the job as I was not taking the subtle hints not to do things above and beyond their way. Completely stupid, but they could also have up to date instructions. Asking for help is prickly, too many egos involved (including mine). I have a month to get with the program and start learning more before the final month of probation.

As a result, I have been an utter jerk here this weekend. I don’t know how mom deals with me sometimes.

One little bright spot: Mom is trying to be more positive.

And I do enjoy my SE. Wish it wasn’t being used for work though. When things stabilize (At the job and in the world), I may buy mom a white one. I am typing so much better on this phone, love the size and weight, it is such a difference in so many ways. And the built in donation to Covid research, made choosing the Red model even easier. This phone is why I stick with Apple: it is so easy to use and functional.

I hope everyone here is okay.
 
That’s beautiful. I may have to get the courage to wake up before dawn and walk to the little brook a few blocks away. There are too many dog owners here and given most people do not wear masks etc. I’ve been reluctant and I need more exercise.

Had an awful first month review at the job as I was not taking the subtle hints not to do things above and beyond their way. Completely stupid, but they could also have up to date instructions. Asking for help is prickly, too many egos involved (including mine). I have a month to get with the program and start learning more before the final month of probation.

As a result, I have been an utter jerk here this weekend. I don’t know how mom deals with me sometimes.

One little bright spot: Mom is trying to be more positive.

And I do enjoy my SE. Wish it wasn’t being used for work though. When things stabilize (At the job and in the world), I may buy mom a white one. I am typing so much better on this phone, love the size and weight, it is such a difference in so many ways. And the built in donation to Covid research, made choosing the Red model even easier. This phone is why I stick with Apple: it is so easy to use and functional.

I hope everyone here is okay.
Great post, I hope things work out at work!

I am reminded of the human politics that must be contended with in most work places, not something I excelled in, not that I have trouble getting along with people in general. I just did not go the extra mile to kiss asses as was required as part of the environment. Although having many summer type jobs during school, the US Navy was the first place where I noticed politics. Too many qualified people to be promoted to limited slots, the ass kissing aspect could became significant if you cared about lasting for 20 years. Don’t consider this as a harsh criticism of the USN, I consider it to be part of most work places where you need to impress the boss beyond doing your job.

However my goal was the airlines, and being a pilot at a major airline, at least the airline I chose, was a remarkably politics free experience. On a pilot crew, you were either number 3, 2, or 1 and working in a senority system, you never needed to brown nose anyone, while acknowledging the chains of a seniority system, everyone who flew was qualified, there was no one to impress beyond being competent at your job, and subsequently you had to wait your turn.

Although interesting enough, I also worked as a flight instructor, in the airplane and the simulators, and over in the training center office spaces, where some pilots volunteered to be semi-permanent program managers, politics did exist! As a guy who just floated in long enough to teach simulator lessons, I could observe but was immune from it. :D
 
That’s beautiful. I may have to get the courage to wake up before dawn and walk to the little brook a few blocks away. There are too many dog owners here and given most people do not wear masks etc. I’ve been reluctant and I need more exercise.

Had an awful first month review at the job as I was not taking the subtle hints not to do things above and beyond their way. Completely stupid, but they could also have up to date instructions. Asking for help is prickly, too many egos involved (including mine). I have a month to get with the program and start learning more before the final month of probation.

As a result, I have been an utter jerk here this weekend. I don’t know how mom deals with me sometimes.

One little bright spot: Mom is trying to be more positive.

And I do enjoy my SE. Wish it wasn’t being used for work though. When things stabilize (At the job and in the world), I may buy mom a white one. I am typing so much better on this phone, love the size and weight, it is such a difference in so many ways. And the built in donation to Covid research, made choosing the Red model even easier. This phone is why I stick with Apple: it is so easy to use and functional.

I hope everyone here is okay.
Probably would have been easier if you had been in the office when you started. I can only imagine what it’s like starting like that. A very peculiar induction.
Good luck with it.
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Great post, I hope things work out at work!

I am reminded of the human politics that must be contended with in most work places, not something I excelled in, not that I have trouble getting along with people in general. I just did not go the extra mile to kiss asses as was required as part of the environment. Although having many summer type jobs during school, the US Navy was the first place where I noticed politics. Too many qualified people to be promoted to limited slots, the ass kissing aspect could became significant if you cared about lasting for 20 years. Don’t consider this as a harsh criticism of the USN, I consider it to be part of most work places where you need to impress the boss beyond doing your job.

However my goal was the airlines, and being a pilot at a major airline, at least the airline I chose, was a remarkably politics free experience. On a pilot crew, you were either number 3, 2, or 1 and working in a senority system, you never needed to brown nose anyone, while acknowledging the chains of a seniority system, everyone who flew was qualified, there was no one to impress beyond being competent at your job, and subsequently you had to wait your turn.

Although interesting enough, I also worked as a flight instructor, in the airplane and the simulators, and over in the training center office spaces, where some pilots volunteered to be semi-permanent program managers, politics did exist! As a guy who just floated in long enough to teach simulator lessons, I could observe but was immune from it. :D
I would describe myself as a brown nose, but I have never worked anywhere where I was not promoted. Maybe I just start lower than I should due to my lack of qualifications. That said in my last two positions I was only answerable to the owners by the time I left.
Although in my last position I was out monovered by a colleague and made redundant. I had the last laugh though. I got a nice redundancy package where they got state minimum when they went under a few months later.
 
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That disheartening point when you’re halfway done thoroughly cleaning and have made a bigger mess than you started out with.

I’m cleaning my room, so I’ve been putting everything on my bed, ensuring that if I want to sleep tonight, I’ll get this done.
 
That disheartening point when you’re halfway done thoroughly cleaning and have made a bigger mess than you started out with.

I’m cleaning my room, so I’ve been putting everything on my bed, ensuring that if I want to sleep tonight, I’ll get this done.

Sympathetic snigger.

I do relate to this.

To earlier matters: @kazmac (sorry to learn about the stuff you have been enduring the past week in your new job; hopefully, matters will improve); @Huntn, & @Apple fanboy, no, I am not a brown nose, and never have been. Somehow, it accords poorly with my character, disposition and temperament.
 
Cute dog. Is this the same property or did you buy another one? I was "around" that area a few months back looking at potential weekend homes but nothing stuck out. May hold out until the recession is in full swing, get two for the price of one?
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Sadly probably true. 😥 My dad is in his 50s and still has good hair, but the men on my mom's side of the family tend to lose it and I hear that's what determines the fate of your pate.
It's an over simplified explanation. A lot of hairloss you see is due to other factors such as stress and diet. Even infections in the scalp you'd have to get tested for that show up as nothing in life.
 
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We've had to lose out on so many family occasions the last few months. I couldn't give a toss about vacations or silly stuff most seem preoccupied with. If you're still going out in recently restriction lifted areas... you're a ****.

I don't think I've ever wanted to see in-laws this much... ever.
 
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