I love using OS X, and really hate having to use Windows... but that doesn't mean that I have to blindly think that everything in OS X is the best possible thing with no room for improvement.
I wouldn't rather join a bunch of negative people, I would like to join a group of people that are willing to look at things relatively objectively and say "Huh, that could be better" or "You know, it really would be great if OS X had this Windows feature (or vice versa)" without getting their panties in a twist over the fact that someone deigned to speak poorly about the Great and Powerful OS X.
You know what? I actually agree with you wholeheartedly except for one thing. I have been on the Mac for 10 years now and not only did I start on Windows and used it for 3 years I went to school for computer science and learned only on Microsoft's DOS, yeah the hard way of programming. Now, I totally feel that OS X has room for improvement and no matter what Apple adds to it people will always complain what it's lacking.
My issue with your views as well as others is that NOBODY makes a suggestion on new ways to improve OS X, all they say is "This button in OS X should work "LIKE WINDOWS". That gets tired because it sounds as if Windows is the right way and those people as well as yourself should be running Windows, right? It makes zero sense to refer back to some other OS and suggest that the Mac should do it the way the other OS does it.
If you want improvement it's makes more sense to suggest new ways to improve the system rather than say, "The Mac should do this and that "LIKE WINDOWS".
Now, would like to hear my suggestion to improve OS X? After all of these years of evolution (especially since I feel that OS X is way ahead of Windows) I think that Apple should be able to make the OS start up instantly and no boot time.
Another suggestion, Apple should allow the user to change the look of the UI in any way we see fit as long as it doesn't change OS X's functionality. I for one don't want my Mac to look like someone else's and I hate haxies.
I am having a real issue with Apple about not creating Mail, AddressBook and iCal into one program. They are all in sync with each other but I have to open 3 different programs?
See those are all features I would like see improvement that has nothing to do with comparing it to Windows.
I don't see the Nintendo Wii mimicking features of the Xbox or the PS3 and the Wii it outselling all of them and remember the Nintendo used to be the underdog. You stay ahead by doing something new and different.