At first I "liked" your post because of your 2nd sentence. Then was thinking about the first sentence, and changed my "like" to a "disagree". As an IT person since forever, I use both and support both, but I am primarily a Windows person. Which OS is "better" is subjective, just like who makes the best burger. macOS and Windows are different and I almost think it depends either on what a person started out using, they stick with, or maybe even "left-brained" vs "right-brained" people and how they choose an OS. Personally, I feel macOS is unintuitive, but I know many other feel the opposite, hence my left- and right-brained theory.
I think a lot of Mac people rely on age-old myths that Windows is a steaming pile of unstable garbage. It might have been decades ago, but it isn't now. When run on good equipment, it's rock solid as macOS is (though nothing is perfect and neither Windows or macOS is bug-free). Many people DIY their own PC build, and maybe that is a factor as to why some people have so many issues. Or they bought the low-end budget model, or what-have-you. Apple offers far fewer options in equipment for people to buy compared to Windows, so macOS has the advantage of running only on Apple hardware it was designed for. Imagine if macOS was able to be run on any hardware -- how would Apple manage to support tens of thousands of different models and millions of combinations of hardware parts? If you think about it, MS does a pretty good job supporting that.
I won't be switching "to a better OS and experience" anytime soon. Windows is 2nd nature to me, does everything I need (more than macOS can do as a matter of fact), and is stable, so why would I?