There's no reason to think different manufacturers for Apple screens would be using different specs. There was a lot of talk about that for the 15" screens, which when tracked by lot number, etc, amounted to nothing.
Yes, it's already an expensive device. Including a screen with the good qualities of this one, plus a faster response time, would make it even more expensive. If enough people cared enough to pay the extra, Apple would do it that way. As with the old 17", which is my favorite, they don't because there's not enough demand for that feature at that price.
They do. I had a 15 inch with an LG screen. My partner had one with a Samsung (same model). Mine had image retention and ghosting and hers was great. I took mine back to the Apple store and a helpful member of staff found one in the storeroom with a different batch number to mine (after another one had the same problem). We turned it on and the screen was perfect. Ran the terminal command to find the identifier and it was Samsung.
Apparently the last gen 16 inch had different screen revisions too but I have no first hand experience with comparisons there. Mine was the first revision and the response rate is poor.