So I've decided to propose to my girlfriend within the next 6 months. We've talked about it a lot, and we know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together and I feel pretty good about popping the question within the next 6 months. My girlfriend is not materialistic at all, and I know that she would be happy with whatever ring I got her, and I also know that she is completely stoked about the meaning behind the ring instead of the ring itself ... which is why I want to get her a Tiffany ring, because I know that is what would make her the happiest. I'm very successful for my age, well ... any age I guess, and I dress well most of the time and feel ( mostly ) comfortable around rich people and businesses, but there is something about a Tiffany & Co. that stops me right in my tracks at the door, which is what would make it difficult to spend a lot of time inside the store. I know mostly what she wants in a ring, but I would love to be completely confident before I buy it so I can get her exactly what she wants. Which is what brings me to my question. How can I find out exactly what she wants without letting on that I'm getting her a Tiffany ring ( I want it to be a surprise ). If you've ever looked at Tiffany rings you'll know that they are pretty unique, so it's not like I can bring her into any jewelry store. How can I find out exactly what ring she wants without her finding out I'm getting her a Tiffany ring? Thanks for your help. - Eric EDIT: Now I'm considering purchasing a Cladddagh Ring and Carving a Welsh love Spoon and proposing with those, and then allowing her to pick out her own ring with me ... Which do you think is better? I'm 100% IRISH on my Father's side and MOSTLY Welsh on my Mothers side.