How about allowing this on the iPad, with a switch to turn it off on our own. Getting tired of going to web sites that need this to see certain things. Sure it will drain the battery more, but let me decide if I want it. With more tablets coming out, if apple cannot let users decide for themselves (I think we are big enough to do this), then my next tablet sure as he'll won't be an iPad!
I would never buy a table based on if it supports Flash or not. Its not that important.