Again...They needed the access because they were lazy.
No, they needed the framework because there was no other way to support hardware accelerated decoding of h.264 on OS X for something like Flash that requires decoded frames, not just a control that plays back video. Lazyness has nothing to do with it.
VDA is the only low-level framework on OS X that gives them this functionality. It appeared in April of 2010. The Flash player that supported it shipped in April 2010.
That isn't lazy, that's waiting on Apple.
Maybe if you want some credibility, you could offer another solution they could have used ? I'm waiting, oh great OS X software developer.