I don’t understand the problem. My iPhone (and all my Apple products for that matter) work better today than they ever have. Now they just issue incremental upgrades that aren’t all that exciting. But the product works great.
I don’t see what there is to be “fatigued” about. You mention “the snail paced incremental upgrades”. So what? It’s a mature product.
It seems to me like Apple conditioned people to get high on the expectation of paradigm shattering technological advancements year-after-year, and they’re no longer getting that high anymore, and they’re bitter and resentful about it. But that technological ramp wasn’t sustainable. It’s just that the early smartphone offerings were so ****** that Apple could just do the things that obviously needed doing, and it was groundbreaking. And now, Apple has essentially “solved” the smartphone. And if you don’t like Apple’s version you can get an Android which is also essentially “solved”.
Honda Accords have, likewise, been “solved” for some time. A 2026 Honda Accord isn’t much different from a 2016 Honda Accord. So there is not much to get excited about. And that’s fine. There is nothing to feel “fatigued” over.