Identity Politics is never a good thing. It is regressive in effect.
True that!
COVID Survivor Commemorative Series 7
LOL, with the "contageous" symbol superimposed over a pair of lungs.
As a White Cis-gendered male, am I allowed to purchase this band as reparations or is it appropriating a culture that I cannot identify with?
Whichever one gets you canceled from your school, job, family, well..that's the one it will be.
At least that's the one you should ASSUME it will be.
Don't worry there will be a band for you in a few decades once you are in the minority!
Not necessarily. Remember the holocaust. There is no band for holocaust surviving Jews today, and I'd say they're a great example of a minority.
Shouldn't be a problem for anyone; unless you're afraid of being treated the way you currently are treating minorities.
This is a false equivalency.
Saying that just because he sees things differently, or disagrees, that he's evil? That's what you said. There are a LOT of reasons not to go along with anything/everything they say we should.
See, there’s the thing. I love the band. And if this were back in the 80s and 90s, I’d buy it Day 1. But today, if I were to wear it, I’d constantly worry about getting called out for cultural appropriation.
It’s sad. Back in the day, Unity was Unity. Now, not so much.
Today, unity is being forced on us. True unity is WELCOMING. This thing that we're seeing, it's not welcoming at all.
It's just another way of saying, "The daily beatings will continue until morale improves."
I don't think that would happen if you rocked the band. Maybe you are assuming the worst?
And with today's cancel culture, why would he not assume the worst?
People have been kicked out of school (high schools, college) for lesser offenses. People have been FIRED from their jobs for lesser offenses. People have been PREVENTED from getting a new job for lesser offenses.
He has EVERY right to assume the worst, because what's happening right now is NOT welcoming. It's more like, "Comply or Lose Everything".
Well, that's a fear that you've pretty much developed inside your own head. (Not meant as an insult!)
Your opinion, and you've assumed that you're right and all will be well. But evidence shows that it's not always automatically okay. There are TONS of examples in the news telling about how somebody got "canceled" because they wore dreds...or they wore a piece of jewelry, or clothing, and somebody else got offended and made the first person's life absolute hell.
Why don't you go with showing unity, and then put it aside if a non-white explains to you how you had the spirit right; but accidentally displayed it wrong?
Once you've been labeled "wrong", you can't go back. Again, lots of examples of people who got "canceled". Apologies only serve as blood in the water for the sharks.
It's never a good sign by default being on the alt-nut side just because you're worried about showing your spirit wrong. Just ask around; see what the people you are afraid of upsetting actually think.
You can say this, and you might even mean it from your heart, but it doesn't make you right in the real world.
Well said! I imagine if he did wear the band, he would be shown a lot of positivity.
Except for that ONE person who wants to make him suffer. That's all it takes in today's cancel culture. One person who decides to take you down.
And THAT is not "unity".
I appreciate and hear what you and svan are saying, but I see it happen a lot. It’s sad AND true.
You're right here, and you're ABSOLUTELY RIGHT TO BE CAUTIOUS AND WARY.
Yep, I wear my pride band every day and it starts conversations with people I meet who are in the LGBTQ+ community all the time. I’ve had nothing but positive conversations about it. I am conscious of the fact that the things I do may be seen as offensive and/or appropriation but I’m willing to change my behavior if I learn that’s the case. It’s something about loving my neighbor and all that.
Good for you. But remember, all it takes is ONE person to decide your fate should go the other way. Go ahead, say something controversial...even mildly so. Then see what happens.
You seriously need to get over that. Do you honestly think people are bold enough to come up to you and hurl an insult about what you're wearing?
Yes they are and yes they do! All it takes is ONE to create a firestorm. You're not willing to say anything controversial, so you won't experience it. Well, until there's nobody else for the monster to eat. And then there won't be anybody (like me) to defend your right to disagree.
If anyone were to do that they've got real personal problems and are willing to take a risk at getting smacked in the head.
I don't understand this sentence. Are you advocating violence? Good luck with that.
It's just a wrist band. You'd have to be pretty close up to someone to even pay attention to it. You're cheating yourself out on something you like because you're worried about something someone would say to your face about it? You're giving people way too much power in your life. SMH.
No, the cancel culture already has too much power in our lives, and we're just trying to survive; especially those of us who know that we're in the group more likely to be canceled than not. We have families and kids and mortgages and jobs too, you know. So yes, I'd cheat myself out on something I like in exchange for something I need more.
And I'm always on my guard now. I wear t-shirts without any logos or sayings. I don't have bumper stickers on my car. Because this thing we have, where one person could start a big huge punishing action against somebody for just saying they like something?
It ain't unity, that's for sure. Real unity cannot be demanded. It must be EARNED, it can only come from the heart, and that's not happening. People will just say the words, but many are doing so only to avoid being "de-personed", because life gets really hard after that happens.