You can not compare this with what's happening now. Steve Jobs father came from a wealthy Syrian family. He was also very smart, hard working, well educated, as well as being a non-practising Muslim. Any country should be happy to welcome someone like him. But he came to the US in the 1950s, before the welfare state.
So back then, if you were a refugee, you could not rely on the state to provide for you. For example, he lived in NYC with a relative, who was the Syrian ambassador to the United Nations (so obviously not your average refugee). Contrast this with the middle eastern and north African refugees that are flocking to the west today. Most of them are really economic refugees, looking for a better life in the west. But unfortunately, many of them do not have the cultural upbringing or are smart enough to do well in a freer society that has largely done away with low skilled jobs. So too many of them end up on welfare. This builds resentment towards the new host nation and integration is nowhere to be found. And because a lot of them can not identify with the people in their new host nation, due to huge cultural differences, many seek their identity and roots in Islam instead. This seems to happen even more in second and third generations.