But it is true; I never chose to be gay, nor did any of my countless gay friends. So don't try to turn sexual orientation/attraction in the "choice" category to justify hate or religious objections. You never chose to be straight. There is no "community to join" LOL. Like I got recruited or something.. pathetic.
Though I agree with on the fact that it is not a choice. Sociology would arge that babies are born not knowing anything about sexual orientation. It is not a part of biology however your spirit is capable to overcome the natural "straight" tendency.
Saying that people are born gay is like saying that people are born to like a certain fruit or a color. These are not choices, just the way you are based on multiple factors in your life, your generated view of things, and your personality; all of which are not connected to biology.
I support your way of life though. Thanks for opening up to us here on MacRumors