Thanks for reminding me I needed to update: talked to store people again today. The only new info is they seem more certain that they will be able to find my phone when the system goes live Friday. They told me this morning that they will be using a scan of serial and IMEI to find the phone that was supposed to be manually ordered for me. I didn't tell them this, they told me....so it appears they got more info since last night when I stopped by. He again stressed that the situation was fluid and that more info continues to be provided to them. This also matches the info I was given by my IUP rep when I called after the store last night and she said they would work on getting more info to store managers.
There is a story on apple insider that would seem to indicate those of us who were in the first batch of calls (which I confirmed I was) had their order manually placed by the IUP rep. Those who were in a later batch are being contacted and told to just reserve it now for themselves as stock is being added.
I will reserve one if it opens up at my local store to be sure, but so far nothing. The worst part is since last night the exact model I want is available at another store that is an hour from my house. I have to work at 11:30 am friday, I could make it to either, but after being reassured multiple times I am not gonna select that one because I cannot risk being late for work. If I don't have it Friday like they promised.......ohhhh boy.