If you don't get it by now.....
As the expression aptly goes.
Here's a last valiant try to overcome YEARS of ignorant/bigoted thinking though:
What makes an article of clothing masculine or feminine is the cut, NOT the color.. This is 2013, NOT 1953. Men wear pink or purple shirts. *gasp* Even businessmen.. even industrialists, all kinds of REAL men.
When I say that I like Apple's new OS & the colors are pleasing to me.. and you say that they are feminine & "real men" won't like them. That is MOST CERTAINLY rude & insensitive!!! You are quite blatantly saying I'm not a "real man" & my tastes are feminine. The fact that you don't even see it is seriously sad (bordering pathetic). When I was taking a corporate cultural sensitivity training class while working at the University, we had one old codger like you who just couldn't quite wrap his old-fashioned mind around the fact that his "harmless" comments, that he had grown up saying.... bearing nobody any ill will, were indeed racist or at least culturally insensitive. Lol, I remember them taking SO long to break him of referring to people by their race in conversations.. as in: "you know, that Mexican guy that works up front.." to people of his generation, that just seemed normal. It made sense, after all.. there was only a single "Mexican" that worked up front. I remember when nothing else would stick, a trainer described how a description sans race references could show that you pay attention & value another human being, as in: "you know that guy that works downstairs.. the one that loves his family, and has all the soccer pictures of his kid on his desk?". It SUDDENLY clicked for him. I am unsure what it would take to "click" for you, for you to realize that nowadays, the things you say and how you say them ARE rude & insensitive (whether you meant for them to be or not). I hope this helps you, as it is not I that has painted you as close minded or bigoted... it is your own words that have sadly done that, sir.
Respectfully hoping that you can join us in this kinder, gentler era... It is NEVER too late to change!!