First of all, the 17" MBP has 256MB VRAM. And second, there most likely will be only that one game that actually *needs* more than 256MB VRAM and you'll still be able to play it on "slightly less than maximum quality" setting.
Putting more VRAM is a total waste - it will make the laptop a few hundred dollars more expensive, with little to no actual benefit for most people.
Yes I know it comes with 256, that was my bad.
I don't understand this most people thing. You are paying near 3 grand for a laptop, you have crossed the most people line.