The new one looks too small compared to the other icons, imo:
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My widgets are all still there... you sure it's not a bug for you?
The grey Apple logo in the menu bar looks really off compared to the black menu text :/
The settings icon is the same height as the ichat icon. It's the rounded rectangular bounding box that is off putting, relative to the other icons. Open the triple gear out of it's casing and scale it up a bit to match the ichat and it wouldn't look so diminished