I don't think it's as simple as just "I spent a lot of money on Apple products, that gives me the right to complain any way I deem fit".Let’s be realistic. Apple is far from being doomed, so you can discard any doomsayers about that. I’d argue you fit into the camp where your personal experience and lack of awareness outside of financial landscapes creates a superior experience for you. People will continue to buy and cry about it at the same time. Apple has a lot of people by the balls due to how much they have vested in the ecosystem.
Critics are emotionally invested because from a financial perspective you HAVE to be vested. This is where the psychology aspect comes into play. If I bought a top of the line product, I will for sure hone in on more nuances than if I bought a cheap product. That is the average buyer’s persona.
There is nothing wrong with being greedy, and there is nothing wrong with Apple charging more. The rise in people’s voice is justifiably louder now because Apple is making more money and increasing their profits. Instead of seeing things as black/white, perhaps observe from the gray area for once, and maybe you will understand beyond reading your favorite pro Apple writers.
The loudest merits I’ve seen is that they have sold a lot of X units and made a lot of Y dollars. As a consumer and not an investor, does that really help me?
I have had my suspicions before, and I am now more sure than ever. To put it bluntly, these critics are still coming to terms (or unable / unwilling to) with the simple fact that they don't matter anymore, in the bigger scheme of things.
They used to be this tiny little flock that loyally followed Apple (and Steve Jobs) to the gates of hell and beyond. Now, the Apple user base consists increasingly of average consumers who have the power in this new relationship with Apple, because of their larger numbers (and greater spending power overall). Apple now caters to an audience with a dramatically different set of needs and wants than this group of Apple users would care to admit. While Apple is forging new grounds with wearables and AirPods and Animoji, they are still going "Where is my new Mac mini?"
If you have watched the movie "Fight Club", you will know where I am going with this. History has proven that there's no way to break the rules without creating new rules. Those who are rebels turn eventually into part of the system or the system itself. Apple is transitioning into a more traditional company, and its behaviour will more closely resemble that of a traditional company.
I won't go so far as to say that Apple has lost its way though. That's just the way she goes. Times change, Apple is changing in keeping with the times, and maybe it's time you all did too.