You've just summed up everything and showed us why your point is pretty much invalid.
Money for you is not an issue so you don't look for value as some other professionals. Good for you but some of us are not that lucky.
Software developer for NHL - great, happy for you. I do top level VFX for movies and I'm sure you've pretty much seen most of my work (without knowing). My workstation at work is crazy expensive and its of course linux. However, this is not about who is "better pro" or not. Its about what Apple did to some people (myself included - explanation to follow).
I like photography and I also like to do occassional freelancing when I'm not crazy busy at work or when some studios ask for help remotely. I had 2008 Mac Pro and later 2010 (12 core) one with 30" ACD. It was great machine with great value and it allowed me to be "prosumer" at home.
Now, lets get back to 2020. I can get outdated iMac which might be ok for the occasional work, I could get iMac Pro which is better but not that much or I can get Mac Pro which the base model is insanely overpriced.
Now, I can't get Apple display as that is just waste of money for my usage as colour grading etc. is not part of my profession. So, to put it simply - I got priced out by Apple and I am no longer able to get the similar as I was in 2008 or 2010. Apple kicked me out from the tower product.
I'm lucky enough that I am able to afford the Mac Pro + the XDR Display BUT it would be insanely unwise decision as the value vs the cost would be against me.
Back to your points - 2013 abandoned few things - mainly dual CPU which for rendering is massive advantage. Sure, you got dual GPUs but who supported that back than and who supports it now. I think (not 100% sure though) that Maya still doesn't support dual GPU for rendering (maybe for Viewport 2.0) so the direction Apple was pushing was not the same as the market. 2013 Mac Pro was beautiful exercise with some amazing ideas but flawed result in the end. It just wasn't what most people wanted.
We will keep "whining" or provide feedback whenever we can as that is the only chance to change something. Just like the "PRO" community slashed back after 2013 model and 'forced' Apple to invite those and talk about Mac Pro which was in the past unheard of - they knew they messed up
So please, stop being so unconsidered to others just because you have big pocket and really don't care about money as you seem to imply. I really hate going into this conversation about comparing but please don't be so tunnel blind. Its not all about you. There is a variety of customers and not everyone is fortunate enough like you.
Also, those that supported the platform for years feel abandoned or priced out by Apple so don't disrespect those that may have been the ones that actually help Apple survive and become what it is today. (I'm sure you know but if not look into history of Apple to understand why I am saying this)
Guys, I develop software for NHL platforms. "You and I" does not apply. I am a "professional". This computer helps me to make money. Although, I'd still buy this Mac just as a personal computer, because I can ... and I like the design and upgradeability.
The 2013 Mac Pro, didn't abandon anybody. It provided dual video cards, Xeon CPU's, ECC ram etc. I think they bet too heavily on the usability of Thunderbolt to provide expansion capabilities. Also, of course, just as with this Mac Pro you're limited to what graphics cards Apple supports.
I don't doubt some people were disappointed, as some inevitably will always be. I also know that Apple gets a bit snooty and full of themselves. Both points are valid.
My main point, is that if you want to continue to see Apple build momentum and keep up with this new 2019 Mac Pro, give it a bit of "love". And to the "genius" who thinks I care on a personal level whether Apple got some random mostly meaningless award, that's just hilarious. I don't on a personal level care; I am suggesting It's good they "win some awards" and obtain some positivity so they are more likely to keep pumping resources into the platform.
Doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that point of view I thought. I'll let you in on a "secret" -> I have 2 of their XDR displays. They are far from perfect ... I'd love for Apple to have figured out how to get rid of the vertical banding you get from the backlighting array; especially for the $6,000 I paid for them. But when I compare it to a $30,000 monitor, or a $1,000 monitor with lower resolution and a **** plasticky design ... I'd take this XDR hands-down over any other PC monitor available.
This is what I mean about stopping the whining. Put things into perspective; the world seems different with common sense in tow.