Seriously, everyone needs to calm down. You are letting an online forum freak you out.
Remember, when you agreed to DF the phone from AT&T, they told you 5 business days. Assuming you did that on Friday, or Monday, that means that you would get it by this Friday at the latest.
I DF'ed mine on Friday at noon, and it shipped last night. I will have it today. Anyone who bought it later on Friday might get it tomorrow and those who bought it on Saturday will probably get it by Thursday or Friday at the latest.
If you are unhappy with this speed, then you should not have agreed to do the DF program. THEY SAID 5 BUSINESS DAYS!!!! Let them do their job and stop panicking. You will get your phone by Friday, as you planned. If you wanted it earlier, you could have sat in line for 4-6 hours at an Apple Store (they still have 4 hour lines yesterday). I, for one, was unwilling to wait in line and am happy that I am getting my phone without spending any time in line. I will go down there today as soon as I see the package lands in the office and activate it.
So, everyone, calm down. If you don't have your phones by Friday, than you can start worrying. Until then, remember, you signed up for this.
Maybe they told you five days, but they definitely did not tell me that. They told me monday or tuesday, but my order is still on backorder. You can sit there all high and mighty telling everyone else to calm down, but you've gotten an update saying you're getting your phone.
So if I had known, I wouldn't have signed up for this.