I just popped in to share my story and vent a bit... enjoy or move along!
I have been with AT&T as my mobile carrier for over a decade, and I've owned several iPhone models starting with the original and upgrading every year or two. I've never pre-ordered before; I always tried to tell myself I wasn't in a hurry, but then I tended to monitor the stock of the nearest Apple Stores (there are two within 45 minutes of me) and try to get there in time to claim one when they had what I wanted. I wanted to make it easier on myself this time around.
Unfortunately in order to upgrade my phone I needed to do a shared upgrade and use my wife's eligibility (she used mine last year), which I could not do through Apple's site, so I had to order through AT&T. I stayed up late on the 11th so I could log in and get it taken care of as soon as it was available. At about 10 minutes to midnight I opened the AT&T page and got a message that due to high demand, the page was unavailable, but it said to stay on the page and eventually it would open - so basically I was waiting in line.
While waiting, I was poking around Twitter and noticed that several people had been able to get theirs ordered already, even though it was before midnight. And here I was stuck in line waiting just to log in. On a whim, I decided to see if I could log in through the AT&T App on my phone, and surprisingly enough, I got right in. I got through the entire ordering process (128gb 6S Plus in Space Gray) and got my confirmation email stating my order had been placed at 2:02:33 CDT. The AT&T page on my computer opened about a minute later.
But yeah, that email... Oct 16-23... I thought, that's impossible, they can't have sold out that quickly! The only thing I could figure was that they obviously didn't have any in the warehouse yet, so their system automatically picked a date that would give them plenty of time to fulfill the order. I hoped, at least.
Now, I'm not sure. It seems really unlikely that the Apple Store, every other carrier, and a handful of retail stores would have access to stock that AT&T does not have access to. I've read about the different model numbers and such, but I have to admit I'll be really irked if people are able to walk in to a brick-and-mortar store on Friday and walk out with a brand-new 6S Plus while I'm waiting four more weeks for the order I placed two weeks ago.
But what bugs me even more than that is AT&T's lack of communication about all of it. And if AT&T is the only carrier facing these kinds of problems, I'm surprised it hasn't been more widely reported. There are far more questions than answers, and that's incredibly frustrating.
Maybe all of us will be surprised on Friday and all of our angst will be for nothing, and I hope so. One thing is for sure though, next time I'm going back to just trying to get lucky at an Apple Store.