So I was in the 1504 order group and I called to speak with customer service and the lady on the phone told me the reason I didn't have my iPhone was because orders opened up on the 13th and I was a day late. I told her a friend of mine ordered his at 10:00 am and his was out for delivery and I ordered at 1:00 am.
When I said this she snapped at me and told me there was no way I was right and that she knew it went on sale before then. When their site was in "maintenance" on the 13th for the launch as I'm sure we all know. On top of the fact that it was opened for pre-order on the 14th. Calmly to try and defuse the situation I asked to speak to a supervisor.
The supervisor told me that I didn't order at 1:00 am and basically it was my fault. I asked if she could cancel my order and she said she couldn't because someone had my account open and updating it so I'd have to wait an hour. The AT&T store near my house had phones but after the hour I had to wait they were all sold out.
So with all of the issues I had with the Online order support team and their service at my house. Whether it was sounding as if they were literally drinking on the job to putting me on hold several times while I was explaining my reason for calling, I closed my account. Then I moved over to Verizon where my area gets better coverage (I've been off contract since July). I guess they thought they were the only company with the iPhone still.
TL;DR
After all of the issues with my order, AT&T Customer Service and the bad service I was getting at home I decided to move to Verizon where I would get better service at home. I picked up a 64GB White iPhone 5 and can finally take a call without having to go outside to get reception.