Agree entirely about the core of iPadOS, but I think it goes beyond the wanting of pro apps etc. I've wanted Xcode for iPad for a while now but tbh it'd suck if iPadOS didn't change considerably. It's just the little friction points that I think would drive me mad, especially if there's no terminal access for example.i dont care about widgets calendar weather and stocks to be different...i care about the core of the ipadOS, to let us use more than 5gb Ram, to use pro apps at its full potential, and bring more apps for developers since they gave us the hardware
Ultimately what the iPad needs is a strong product direction. I think it's either a case of they really don't know what to do with iPadOS or they do but they don't want to cannibalise the Mac & iPhone by making iPadOS a 1:1 contender to macOS.