Whilst of course, none of this it's good. Some will see it as a price worth paying for freedom.
Do you want to live in the free world, where you can go and do as you want, but you might get run over, might get aids, may get food poisoning, might not be able to get a good job etc etc.
Of do you want to like in a safe zoo. You are locked in so no-one can get in to harm you, all your foods are prepared, and your life and what you can and can't do is controlled by others with your best interests at heart?
Is having some bad things possibly happen from time to time a price worth paying for your freedom?
Freedom? Oh good grief. I love it when these discussions turn religious.
First of all, there is no such thing as absolute 'freedom' in society based on your definition. A situation where there is no authority governing what you can and can't do, and no safeguards in place against harm, would be anarchy. In a state of anarchy, people who can't defend themselves lose their freedoms anyway. For a society to function, it has to find the right balance, somewhere between a totalitarian dictatorship and complete anarchy.
But getting back to the very serious topic of mobile handsets for a moment… This black and white distinction between utopian freedom, and a walled in prison, is just as imaginary. Again, there must be a balance—somewhere between a device that enables absolutely no customisation (no choice of which apps are installed, no customisable settings, no choice about anything other than whose number you dial), and a device which requires the user to write the OS from scratch.
So which of the current approaches finds the best balance? You know the beauty of it is, you can decide for yourself and buy the phone that best suits your personal needs!!
Speaking specifically about Apple and the iPhone, here's a quick reality check for you… Compared to the pre-iPhone era, iOS opened up amazing possibilities to customise your mobile device's capabilities once the App Store gained momentum. If you went back in time and showed this to someone a few years ago, they would be amazed at what you can do, and equally amazed that a whole new breed of tech-zealots decry this terrible lack of 'freedom'. If the whole topic of Apple's 'closed' approach gets your blood in a boil, then I have some sad news for you my friend… You've been duped into joining a new religion.