Well I got through and the person said I can only change it on the website. I told her that others have done it via the phone and I've done it in years past but she said I can only do it online. I asked to speak with someone else so lets see what happens...
Following up, the order status pages are back up and I can confirm that my order is now showing the changed shipping address I had requested over the phone. No change to the delivery date. I also got an email confirmation for the change. Good luck!
Did you just talk to a sales staff person?
When I asked to talked to someone else the sales staff person (who keeps seeming more and more incompetent) transferred me to some tech support guy who says I can only change it online even though I said I was able to do it on the phone before and when I referenced the error message about the wireless provider and changing the address. Now I am currently back in the sales queue waiting to talk to someone else. This experience is getting close to reaching my third worse experience with Apple and their support staff.
What carriers did the people have that were able to change their order?
I literally must have had the dumbest sales rep the first time around. I got to a second sales rep (what I also directed the first lady to send me to for a second opinion) and he was able to change it to my billing address easily. Sounded like on the phone that it cannot be shipped just to any address though.
Any idea if we can change it to pickup in store?
Called transfered 3 times took 20 minutes. I ask for a shipping address change and the CSR rep said changing the address will change the ship date? Heck no! I hung up and now I'm back on the phone.
I'm hoping to ship it to my work. I've got a second order for the leather case going to my work address. Did the rep make it sound like the only thing it could be changed to was the billing address?
a possibility though can't confirm. once you receive your tracking information, contact UPS or FedEx and ask for it to be held at one of their distribution centers near you? I did that when I had my sleep/wake button replaced by apple and it was being mailed to my home but I wouldn't get home until late.
This is a really good idea. I have done this before too.
Has anyone ever done pre sign for delivery? How does that process work?
IIRC, they won't allow a pre-signature for the iPhone.

Mine didn't say that, the second guy just did it easily. Took me two hours though.
The 2nd person did it easily. IDK where they get these crazy people. Took me 20 minutes for the 2nd call. 40 minutes total. IDK if I'm lucky but where are these hour long ques coming from?
Mine didn't say that, the second guy just did it easily. Took me two hours though.
The 2nd person did it easily. IDK where they get these crazy people. Took me 20 minutes for the 2nd call. 40 minutes total. IDK if I'm lucky but where are these hour long ques coming from?
They have hired some idiots, that's for sure. My times consisted of 40 minutes on hold and being hung up on, then another 20 to get to the first moron, then 10 to get to a tech advisor (because apparently that's another sales staff, what an idiot I can't get over it), 30 minutes with him sorting things, and then another 20 to do a 1 minute long change.