Same area my friend... here's my status:
42mm SS w/Classic Buckle
Ordered 4/10 @ 0302 AM EDT
Shipping to Northern VA (Washington D.C. suburb)
Charged on Monday, Status changed to "Preparing for Shipment" Monday evening. No change since.
FYI... My extra charging cable is being delivered by a regional courier called "Laser Ship"... never had that before. Maybe Apple is utilizing additional carriers this time around for the "last mile".
First post here ever, but I am in a similar boat as well.
42mm SS w/ classic black buckle
Order 4/10 with 0316 confirmation
Shipping to D.C.
Processing status and no charge on any cardthough the AppleCare+ has been charged to the gift card on the order.
I'll be out of town on Friday, and it'll still be going to my office. I'd at least like to have a little more certainty in the delivery window at this point, but patience is a virtue.