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This is such a sad world we live in. This man did this 25, yes, 25 years ago and people can't forgive him? Smh. He was in his mid 20s. I'm sure we all aren't proud of the foolish and dumb mistakes we made in our 20s.

So if your daughter told you her raped her, when she was 11, but it was 25 years ago, you'd be fine, as hey it was 25 years ago?
 
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Spot on! I REALLY feel like saying "I told you so" to all of the numbskulls around here who have been defending this disturbing acquisition.

I agree that the Beats acquisition was a mistake. I really don't like Apple Music. Rdio always seemed like the most elegant Apple-like streaming service to me. I wish they had bought that and kept it entirely separate from iTunes.

As for Dr. Dre, I find it difficult to muster up much of an opinion about some grubby encounter in a nightclub a quarter of a century ago.
 
No, I think the point there is that if you are saying one thing publicly while doing something completely different in private, there is a problem there.

In this case, whether you believe him or not, Dre is saying that he regrets what happened in the past and is actively working to change the way he lives. If someone comes forward with allegations that contradict what he has said, then it's fair game to go after him as a hypocrite. But until then, all we can do is take him on his word.

But what about someone who apologizes for their hypocrisy? Not sure I see the distinction. Forgiveness is forgiveness.

What we have here is Tim Cook telling us all: Look, we paid a billion dollars for this guy, so you're all going to shut up and take this apology. Take it!
 
I'm sure Apple did their homework on him before they made him a billionaire. I bet that PR statement was drafted long ago, waiting for the day when the old abuse stories became front page news. I bet Tim Cook and others are privately annoyed that they have to have him in such a prominent role. Doesn't seem very Apple-like.
Apple and Timmy paid/bought/hired him. I would love to see it blow-up in their face. They will have earned it.
 
So the message here is "its okay to do all these evil things" because I will apologize 25, 50 years from now. So kids today can look up to people like these and say, hey I'm young, I can do all this "evil" "mean" stuff and I'll be forgiven later on because I'll apologize for it. Something inherently wrong with this thinking. The message should be, "don't do any of this stuff...period". Young or old. If you did, then you deserve punishment.
 
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This man did this 25, yes, 25 years ago and people can't forgive him? Smh. He was in his mid 20s. I'm sure we all aren't proud of the foolish and dumb mistakes we made in our 20s.

Personally I have forgiven him because he was convicted numerous times and served his sentences. But forgiveness isn't really up to us in the first place because we aren't one of his victims. I wonder how they feel today.

If you pay any attention to violence against women (or domestic abuse in general) you'll know that the reported incidents are the tip of the iceberg, especially when the abuser is a powerful, rich, or famous person, and Dr Dre is all three. So we don't know the whole extent or period of abuse, but we do know that it is likely that the incidents we know about are not the whole of the matter. We also that beyond the beatings themselves, he later used his influence to harm the careers of at least one of the women who dared speak about it.
 
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This is dumb. He's probably done a lot worse than what he did to Dee Barnes 25 years ago. He's 50. He's apologized and paid for his mistakes. Why do we care now?
Because Straight Outta Compton was not released 25 years ago, it was released last week. The film is supposedly biographical, but these pretty significative events in the life of Dr Dre were omitted. Hence the discussion.
 
Sounds about as genuine as one can be. He got out of trouble and has spent a quarter century moving on to better things in life. And he doesn't appear to be making excuses or pretending it didn't happen. That's really all I could ask.

...but omitting it from the movie is exactly that...pretending it didn't happen. There was no apology statement before this issue was brought back to the surface.
 
What do the people he's hurt in the past think? Do they accept his apology? That's all that really matters.
 
Nope. That's not it at all. When regular people do deplorable things, it doesn't matter how sorry they are. Their lives and careers are over. Some people get to live by a different set of rules. Even child molesters/rapists get a pass if they are loved by the right people -- look at Roman Pulanski and Woody Allen for example.
Simply put, you're wrong. Regular people recover and reform their lives all the time. You just don't hear about it... cuz regular people. Just in this forum alone I bet we could get dozens of stories of forum members or their friends, family, and acquaintances who have overcome troubled pasts. Fact is, most people get the opportunity to turn their lives around. Question is, do they do it. Celebrity has nothing to do with it.
 
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He has done some horrible stuff. I read a while back that he shot at his woman and barely missed (Michel'le http://www.eurweb.com/2015/04/michelle-remembers-when-dr-dre-shot-at-her-watch/). Ultimately, he has apologized for it and he and the women have moved on unless some are wanting some of his money now.

For those of y'all that are acting holier than thou, I sure hope your info doesn't pop up in the Ashley Madison hack dump files.
 
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That may be the case, but "gangsta rap" was a CIA operation from day one designed to ruin society. There's a guy on the internet who claims he attended a secret meeting outside of L.A. in the early 90s where record companies got together to 'design' gangsta rap. Even if this is only conspiracy conjecture, all you have to do is look at the quality acts before gangsta rap took over: De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest, Dream Warriors, even fun groups like Leaders of the New School, Black Sheep -- there were tons of positive groups and good rappers like Gang Starr, Big Daddy Kane, etc., who were hard without being lowlifes, and who mostly put out positive messages, or at worst self-aggrandizing rhymes. Then it all turned ugly with those Compton ghetto-mongers and turned into a big nightmare which engulfed us all. Dre and his cohorts were nobodies then and are nobodies now. They ruined a legitimate art form.

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This is Martin Cleary. Graduated magna cume laude from Dartmouth in '91. Shortly thereafter, he was recruited by the CIA for reasons entirely unknown. A member of the intelligence committees on race relations, disinformation, and propaganda. You don't know this man. Officially, he doesn't exist. His birth certificate, along with any records of his education, have been purged from public documentation. But we used to see him every day.

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I never understood why Tim Cook hooked up with Dre. He has a very infamous past that includes convictions for multiple assaults on women and has super misogynistic songs ("B*tches aint sh*t but h*es and tricks" from The Chronic is but one example). This seems to fly in the face of Cook's progressive push for gay rights, increased diversity in the workforce, etc. It's even more puzzling when you have Apple employees like Zane Lowe on Beats 1 claiming the Chronic album changed his life.
 
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So if your daughter told you her raped her, when she was 11, but it was 25 years ago, you'd be fine, as hey it was 25 years ago?
Personally, I would never forgive him, as nobody should, but if after 25 years he can convince me he's truly sorry, and has been working to improve himself for the majority of that time, I'd understand. I still wouldn't forgive him, wouldn't want him near my daughter or even in my own community, naturally, but I'd at least understand, and I wouldn't consider him a threat so long as he sticks to his new sense of self.
 
Sounds about as genuine as one can be. He got out of trouble and has spent a quarter century moving on to better things in life. And he doesn't appear to be making excuses or pretending it didn't happen. That's really all I could ask.



You lost me at "CIA operation from day one designed to ruin society." Sorry, but you sound like those crazies who say the same about gay people, and Jews, and everyone else.

I really don't care if you're lost.
 
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