It doesn't make you effeminate, it made your ball effeminate.
If someone walked in that bowling alley, and oddly requested a "front and center" of anyone with a "feminine ball", then the entire alley would have looked at you. Period.
Yet that very pink ball earned me this:

Say what you want about a 'bowling ball' and everyone looking at me thinking that image is everything. But when I threw 26 in a row with it, the results spoke for themselves. I have the ring; you have nothing but talk and your own limiting beliefs.
BL.