I was at a different, well-known Mac forum which I liked because the repartee was zany and fast, even more so than here. But one of the mods, for whatever reason, seemed to have taken a dislike to me and kept goading me with snide remarks. He was, in short, acting like one of the trolls he was supposed to be policing.
Now, I know a lot of people play the "mean old moderator is picking on me" game, but I was well-liked at that forum. I was not a troublemaker, nor a headache to the mods. And really, I'm the same person here that I was there -- and I've been here for well over seven years without so much as a single time-out.
So anyway, after this went on a while, I decided I didn't want to keep up an ongoing textual battle with this guy at the other forum. After all, one of the prime rules of forums is "Don't feed the trolls." And let's face it, he was a mod: he wins any time he chooses to.
So I wrote a private, explanatory goodbye PM to the owner of the forum and a couple close acquaintances there, and found this place. I have to admit, I did check back a few months later and it was nice to see that some people had discussed the circumstances of my absence and said they missed me. Frankly, I miss them as well.
But this feels more like my permanent home. The mods seem very level-headed and professional, and there are certain people, like leekohler and Blue Velvet, for whom I have great respect.