"Sup darlin', Can I take a swim in your fish pond?"
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how to ask a girl out
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"Sup darlin', Can I take a swim in your fish pond?"
I'm queer - so maybe you shouldn't listen to me...
lol, im thinking that won't work with her. well, i guess i will have to ask her somehow....hmm.... THINK!!!
Wear some Nike's to school the gay you're going to ask her out. Everytime you get nervous, look down at the logo and think "Just do it."
+ btw, dnt du it ovr the intrnt.
Man up and just ask her out. No matter how stupid you sound, she'll just think its cute that you attempted to ask her out. Even if she says no, i'm sure you won't feel rejected. You'll feel so confident that you actually had the courage to say something that it won't bother you and you'll ask more girls out with a chip on your shoulder.
Just ask her.
Girls (even the hot ones, so I hear) like to be treated like normal humans being, so just act like she's a reglar bro. Don't act like this*
Nothing to be afraid of I don't think.. I mean, it can be nervous your first time, but really it's not that bad.
Hope it goes well fer ya..
*not a Rickroll...
Girls (even the hot ones, so I hear) like to be treated like normal humans being, so just act like she's a reglar bro. Don't act like this*
Nothing to be afraid of I don't think.. I mean, it can be nervous your first time, but really it's not that bad.
Hope it goes well fer ya..
*not a Rickroll...
I have a interesting story that just happened today that I'll share if anyone is curious.
As for the first poster, I would def make sure she knows you well enough first. It sounds like you just like her because she is good looking. If you ask her out randomly and she barely knows you, you guys will probably never have a chance and if she is popular you will get made fun of by her and her friends.
On the other hand, if you actually do like her, you know her well, and you guys have hung out already, you shouldn't be nervous about asking her out. Best advice to give.
As for the first poster, I would def make sure she knows you well enough first. It sounds like you just like her because she is good looking. If you ask her out randomly and she barely knows you, you guys will probably never have a chance and if she is popular you will get made fun of by her and her friends.
On the other hand, if you actually do like her, you know her well, and you guys have hung out already, you shouldn't be nervous about asking her out. Best advice to give.
Hmmm...you're making too much of a big deal out of it and dare i say it putting the girl on a pedestal already. but if you want try:
"Hey. So listen, i'd like to take you out for drinks sometime". or after you've both just laughed at something "So listen, i'd like to take you out for drinks sometime"
Say it like its no big deal and you've done it before i.e. be confident when you say it.
Its not threatening and it sends a clear message i think.
If she likes you she'll say yes. If she doesn't then you know where you stand and life goes on. There are other women out there.
If she does say yes, show her a good time. Be funny (make fun of your tutors or something), flirty (not overtly) and tease her occasionally (don't be mean). Also focus your attention on her i.e. get her to talk about herself.
Remember the longer you wait the more you increase/solidify your status in the 'friends zone'
"Hey. So listen, i'd like to take you out for drinks sometime". or after you've both just laughed at something "So listen, i'd like to take you out for drinks sometime"
Say it like its no big deal and you've done it before i.e. be confident when you say it.
Its not threatening and it sends a clear message i think.
If she likes you she'll say yes. If she doesn't then you know where you stand and life goes on. There are other women out there.
If she does say yes, show her a good time. Be funny (make fun of your tutors or something), flirty (not overtly) and tease her occasionally (don't be mean). Also focus your attention on her i.e. get her to talk about herself.
Remember the longer you wait the more you increase/solidify your status in the 'friends zone'
Ha okay. It's kind of pathetic on my part, but i'll share it because it's actually really cute. Don't make fun of me.
I'm a Senior in high school. Last year (my Junior year) there was this girl who I saw in my lunch that I thought was really cute. And she acted really nice and stuff. She was a Freshman then and now she is a Sophomore. She sat by our lunch table, and I never said anything to here. Now, I've never been shy around girls. I've had like 6 girlfriends that are deemed long enough to actually be a decent relationship for my age. But still, I thought this girl was so cute and something was different about her.
Flash forward to a month ago.
I had my friend introduce us, because i rarely see her at school. So we saw each other a few times and started texting. We didn't see each other a lot in person last month, but we sure have texted a lot. I never thought I would have a chance with this girl because she is incredibly cute and not even in my class.
Randomly, i don't see her much at school, but next semester which is in a day we have a class together.
And yesterday, I offered her a ride home today, and she said yes i need one that would be great.
So today comes, I meet her at her locker. Talk real quick, then go to my car, I'm also giving my friend a ride home too. I just figure i'm dropping him and her off, but nope! I drop him off, then she is like "Wanna go to my moms work and meet her?" So i'm like sure. We end up talking for over an hour, and her mom just fell in love with me. She even hugged me as I left. Then we went out to starbucks, just me and the girl. And then after that we were gunna go see some puppies at this place, but it was closed. So what I thought was a 5 minute session turned into 2 hours, until I had to go to work. It was great.
Yes, I sound extremely noobish, but this is thee cutest, nicest, smartest girl I've ever actually been interested in.
PS, we are hanging out all day Saturday.
I'm a Senior in high school. Last year (my Junior year) there was this girl who I saw in my lunch that I thought was really cute. And she acted really nice and stuff. She was a Freshman then and now she is a Sophomore. She sat by our lunch table, and I never said anything to here. Now, I've never been shy around girls. I've had like 6 girlfriends that are deemed long enough to actually be a decent relationship for my age. But still, I thought this girl was so cute and something was different about her.
Flash forward to a month ago.
I had my friend introduce us, because i rarely see her at school. So we saw each other a few times and started texting. We didn't see each other a lot in person last month, but we sure have texted a lot. I never thought I would have a chance with this girl because she is incredibly cute and not even in my class.
Randomly, i don't see her much at school, but next semester which is in a day we have a class together.
And yesterday, I offered her a ride home today, and she said yes i need one that would be great.
So today comes, I meet her at her locker. Talk real quick, then go to my car, I'm also giving my friend a ride home too. I just figure i'm dropping him and her off, but nope! I drop him off, then she is like "Wanna go to my moms work and meet her?" So i'm like sure. We end up talking for over an hour, and her mom just fell in love with me. She even hugged me as I left. Then we went out to starbucks, just me and the girl. And then after that we were gunna go see some puppies at this place, but it was closed. So what I thought was a 5 minute session turned into 2 hours, until I had to go to work. It was great.
Yes, I sound extremely noobish, but this is thee cutest, nicest, smartest girl I've ever actually been interested in.
PS, we are hanging out all day Saturday.
I know. Thank you very much. I'm kinda shocked too. It's great. She really is something else..
will do melrose ! anyways, just realized something.. i'm broke right now. and btw daneoni, i am not even close to drinking age so no alcohol for me. either way, i hope she says yes... well, i have knwn her since last year and we sit at the same lunch table and stuff but we have never hung out outside of school before. what are my chances?
hang out with her first. DO NOT ASK HER OUT. then see how that goes.
read my post above for inspiration.
Ask questions, that's it. Women do not care about what you have to say at all anyway. All they want to do is talk about themselves, so you just gotta let them do that. Ask questions, be cool, and be kind of a dick. Be David Caruso in Jade.
i see. i'll ask her tom. if she wants to hang out on the weekends. btw, since i know like nothing about girls, what do they like to do? hmm, that gives me an idea and a goal for tom. find out what her hobbies are.
I agree with the above poster as well, because of your age I would nto go into asking her out right away... I would try to talk to her first for a couple of days and see where that goes.. by the way when i say a couple of days i do mean a couple of days, if you talkt o her for more than a week then you will very fast and surely fall into that F zone you really don't want to slip in... just talk to her, ask her about herself, if she is interested she will easily try to talk back and make convo, if not then she will try to walka way from you, taht was my experience wen i was your age...so if she talks to you ask her out then
k, the future looks rly blurry for me right now.
well, gotta hope for the best. and what is the F zone? friend ?
I think being a 15 year old in high school, and asking a girl out at that age, is really difficult. She'll be really shy, you'll be really shy. Sure, it gets easier and less embarrassing when you get older, since asking a girl out isn't seen as a big deal after you're 16 or 17.
Best thing to do is to hang out first. Somehow, you've got to be in a social situation with her, where she can see how you are in a social situation. If she already knows you're not a bad guy, it'll make it easier to ask her.
If you've already hung out with her socially (i.e. just you two, or with other friends), then great. Does she send you any signals at all to indicate that she likes you?
Best thing to do is to hang out first. Somehow, you've got to be in a social situation with her, where she can see how you are in a social situation. If she already knows you're not a bad guy, it'll make it easier to ask her.
If you've already hung out with her socially (i.e. just you two, or with other friends), then great. Does she send you any signals at all to indicate that she likes you?
well, we sit at the same lunch table and we talk everyday but well if she likes me based on what i can tell from body lang., its about 50/50. she likes or not. well, she smiles when i say hi and stuff but as far as body language goes, i suck at reading that. hmm, i will have to see if we can hang out and celebrate after finals are over!cuz, next week, finals end and i want to see if she would like to come over wit ha couple of other ppl who also sit at my lunch table(she and i are friends with like everybody at the table so maybe i cna ask one of them for help)
k, are there any other things that i could do besides going to a movie? good idea though. us 2 and a couple of other ppl.