how to ask a girl out

[scottkifnw]

Get to know her first.

k, there is this one girl at school who i rly like but when i decide to walk up to her and attempt to ask her out, i get all nervous and decide against it...
P.S i know the girl.so normal stuff ain't a prob but i can't ask her out for the life of me.

First, it is a date, not a proposal. It will end sooner or later. Think of it as practice. If you fear rejection, then get to know her first and pick up clues. If you are perceptive enough, you will generally know the answer before you ask. That said, rejection is part of the growth process. You will never grow unless you get out from behind the computer screen.

 

[lozanoj83]

Honestly, just ask her out or stalk talking her to her more then ask her.
Stop with the im scared of everything crap, and scared of rejection. I asked my ex out, went a couple of months then broke it off, but it taught me that I need to ask if I want to find out, so just go out and ASK!

 

[wywern209]

kkkk!!! i got the message! i will try to ask her out like after exams are over cuz, i have exams till next Tuesday.

 

[Demosthenes X]

Argh... i am in over-drive from stress. i kid you not. i have way too much crap due this friday than most ppl on the planet. why do i have to take my finals if i am acing my classes. it makes no sense, its like saying" mr.einstein, we will ask you to reinvent the wheel, just so we can make sure you are smart". i rly hate this time of the year. it is the polar opposite of xmas! is anyone here a master of body language and subtlety?

As it happens, I have just the list for you!

[FONT=Arial, Helvetica][FONT=Arial, Helvetica][FONT=Arial, Helvetica]Kiss on the hand means : FRIENDSHIP.

Kiss on the nose means : YOU'RE CUTE.

Kiss on the cheek means : I NEED YOU.

Kiss on the neck means : I WANT YOU.

Kiss on the lips means : I LOVE YOU.

Kissing with eyes closed means : I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU.

Kissing with eyes opened means : I'M WATCHING WHERE YOUR HANDS ARE GOING.

The military Kiss means ..... "Keep It Simple Stupid"..

Stolen Kisses ARE THE SWEETEST! (Always want to return it)

Morale of the story is ... Its not WHO you are KissING but WHERE you're KissING that matters

Other signs .....

Often thinking of you means : I CARE FOR YOU

Holding hands means : I LIKE YOU

Looking into the eyes means : DO YOU LOVE ME?

Squeezing fingertips means : I WANT A Kiss

Leaning on the shoulder means : COMFORT ME

Getting occasional short hugs means : I MISS YOU

Biting lips means : I AM JEALOUS

Winking at you means : I WANT TO GO WITH YOU

Playing with your hair means: I ADORE YOU

Stepping on toes means: I HATE YOU

Getting hit in "very painful places" means : I REALLY HATE YOU

Dreaming of you at night : YOU'RE SOMEONE SPECIAL

Always being with you means : I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU

Wearing his or her ring means: YOU'RE MINE FOREVER

Often giving you something means : CARE FOR YOU VERY MUCH

Placing hands on shoulder means : GET THE HINT STUPID!!!
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[wywern209]

As it happens, I have just the list for you!

thanks!!! a big help. knew some of these just not all of them! now i gotta be more observant.

 

[phas3]

As it happens, I have just the list for you!

where the heck did you get this list from? i completely disagree with most of those body languages...sounds like an 8th grader made it up

 

[juanster]

I was going to give you some advice too but then I realized that I'm a 21 year old girl and I still can't ask the guy I like out...

God, I'm pathetic...

it's okay you can tell me

 

[wywern209]

anjinhamarota, don't worry. just look nice and cute and all the guys will come. no kidding. go to the apple store. i heard tha tlots of guys hang out there.

where the heck did you get this list from? i completely disagree with most of those body languages...sounds like an 8th grader made it up

lol. it was supposed to be funny, while witholding some truth.

 

[Vivaldi]

Here is my advice: if you have to ask for advice on this subject, then you are not ready yet.

Many of us have been in this same predicament before: the only way to succeed is to stave off your fear and commence the query. Otherwise, what you would like may never be realised.

Just take care of it, and even if the result is negative, hopefully you will have acquired enough courage to apply it to the next time you wish to ask this question.

 

[wywern209]

u know vivaldi, they say a person who does ask a question is stupid for 2 minutes, but one who never asks one is stupid for all eternity. either way, don't ask me who they is cuz i don't know either.

 

[phas3]

well tomrorow is the big day, its friday, you better have a good story when we talk to you again after this weekend.

 

[ntrigue]

You'll love college. Here's your manual:

1) Tear-off small corner of paper
2) Write NAME. NUMBER. ADDRESS.
3) Make eye contact.
4) "Party at my pad on Saturday, bring girlfriends."
5) Smile.
6) Wait until Saturday.
7) Invite inside.
8) Fill Dixie cup with beer.

 

[wywern209]

lol. i am gonna like college. seriously though, i can't wait to be out of high school and to start learning what i want to learn.

well tomrorow is the big day, its friday, you better have a good story when we talk to you again after this weekend.

yeah, but we have a messed up schedule tom, due to final exams. so maybe, maybe not. well would good story be that i asked her out, and then she said maybe later, i shall consider and for the rest of the weekend, i am held on suspense.

 

[Rapmastac1]

Can you post a picture of this girl? lol

Do not, I repeat DO NOT do this! Haha, not only is it illegal but it isn't very nice. Like putting a piece of meat up on display.

Wait til Tuesday, but I bet once it's then you will wait again til Friday, and then you will continue indefinitely. Get it going now!

"You can get whatever you want, you can do it! Hooray for you!"

 

[Abstract]

Do not, I repeat DO NOT do this! Haha, not only is it illegal but it isn't very nice.

It's definitely not nice, but it's not illegal unless you took a photo of her on her private property.

Why do you think paparazzi still have jobs?

 

[Melrose]

where the heck did you get this list from? i completely disagree with most of those body languages...sounds like an 8th grader made it up

A pre-adolescent girl with Orlando Bloom posters on her bedroom wall, at that.

I was going to give you some advice too but then I realized that I'm a 21 year old girl and I still can't ask the guy I like out...

God, I'm pathetic...

I don't like women that are too forward.. Don't be afraid to ask, just don't be pushy. Do it sweet.

 

[anjinha]

anjinhamarota, don't worry. just look nice and cute and all the guys will come. no kidding. go to the apple store. i heard tha tlots of guys hang out there.

No apple stores here. But that is a good idea, I like mac geeks.

I don't like women that are too forward.. Don't be afraid to ask, just don't be pushy. Do it sweet.

Usually I'm confortable talking to guys and even asking them out... except when i really, really like them. Then I get really nervous.

 

[Melrose]

Usually I'm confortable talking to guys and even asking them out... except when i really, really like them. Then I get really nervous.

Funny how that it always seems to work like that.. I get the same way. Damn hormones!

 

[WinkWink726]

grow a pair and do it

sorry,but thats really the only way lol

Right?!?
"Lift up your skirt and grab your boys, Sally!!!" as I always say! LOL

Just be honest.
I mean... if she's worth dating and she's right for you.
She's hoping that you're GOING to ask her out and she doesn't care how you do it.

Be yourself--best advice
Don't change for anyone (compromise is different).
If you change... someone will love/like you for who you're NOT

 

[SteveMobs]

lol. i am gonna like college. seriously though, i can't wait to be out of high school and to start learning what i want to learn.

The first year is Gen-Ed mixed with some concentration stuff. And then you get to what you want and it's hard. That's college, at least engineering. But study hard and you'll be fine.

As for this girl, is this really still going on? It's friday and you need to ask. It's better to regret doing something than to regret not doing something. Seriously, what's the worst that could happen? It's High School, grow a pair. You should be out egging houses, destroying trash cans, partying with friends and doing stupid stuff before you turn 18.

This is probably really bad advice to be giving you. But ask already!

 

[Eric Piercey]

It's a lot easier to just be a loser and never ask girls out. Get her laughing and the rest is downhill.

 

[Demosthenes X]

where the heck did you get this list from? i completely disagree with most of those body languages...sounds like an 8th grader made it up

LOL. Obviously it's not meant to be taken seriously. It's one of those chain emails than some of my friends still send me, even through we're all 20. I thought it was kind of funny.

 

[arkitect]

It's a lot easier to just be a loser and never ask girls out. Get her laughing and the rest is downhill.

I don't think you meant that…

"Get her laughing and the rest is easy." Perhaps?

 

[Iscariot]

The first step is to dress appropriately. I always approach a woman in my finest silks, silvermail polished and hair and beard braided with the teeth of my fallen foes. I don't know how many foes you've felled, but if you've yet to become a man in the eyes of Ganthitor, you could just dress it up with some of your baby teeth. Since you want to demonstrate high value, you may want to complete a hunt beforehand, a mythical creature would be best but even if you just had some hide to offer you could show that you're an ample provider for the hut.

Once you're ready to go — don't be afraid to give a little pep talk in front of a mirror, you're a stud! — you need to approach her and make your intentions known. Something along the lines of "Lo, look fore, for I am wywern209, son of [father's name], next in the line of [lineage]. I have battled the Wyrm, felled the demons of the Infernal Chasm, and in my wake lay broken homes and broken bones. My battlecry pierces the hearts of men and drowns out the sea of widows. Kneel before me and I shall have thee!"

The rest is baby-makin', infidel smiting and dying in your twenties of an easily preventable disease. Good luck!

 

[GfPQqmcRKUvP]

Wow.