WTF with the slur connection already! Are you looking to start something or are you just messing around? Effeminate, wimp, etc is how I see it used. That's in your dictionary too. I guess we don't have as many mean people where I live. We are pretty nice where I live.
If they're not "out to offend", then why use "offensive slang".
Words can hurt. Gay slurs hurt. "Nice people" try to avoid offensive slang.
Just say "no", use another term. "Wimp" is great - no offensive overtones.
If you didn't know before that "pansy" is offensive slang, now you do - and maybe next time you'll pick another word. (I realize, FakeWoz, that you didn't use the term - but the second person pronoun seemed the best fit.)
George W. Bush didn't realize how fundamentally offensive it was when he referred to the
war on terrorism as a "crusade" - but that doesn't mean that it wasn't a huge, damaging gaffe.
AidenShaw, please relax, nobody is out to offend homosexuals by calling Google legal staff effeminate for its indirect lawsuit tactics. Well at least that I saw, anyway.
Are you kidding me?
Calling Google staff "effeminate" is not offensive?
That's the essence of the "gay slur" - it is based on an assumption that female is bad, and that a male with feminine traits is worse. And what if the Google staff is female - then it's an anti-female slur as well.
"Pansy" is just unacceptable unless you're talking about
Sorry for the rant, but I do volunteer support work with queer youth. These "off the cuff" homophobic slurs, even though often not consciously intended as slurs, do hurt. When a kid is struggling with sexual identity issues, these slurs add to the problem.
Please, realize that it's destructive, and find other words.