Here's my perspective (not that anyone asked)...and it's probably already been stated since the thread is so long, and I haven't read all the posts.
I am a retired business owner. For years I designed my company website. I was a programmer before owning my own company, so it wouldn't have been a problem for me to use Javascript, Java applets, Flash, etc.
Flash is cool. Lots and lots of websites use Flash. I understand this - we all know this. However, I also know that there is a large percentage of the population that doesn't use or like Flash, for many reasons. Many have computers that aren't powerful enough to display Flash content very well. Many still have slow Internet connections and don't want to download huge Flash content just to browse a website. Many don't want the ads. Many use computers with operating systems that don't have very well optimized plugins for displaying Flash content.
As a business owner I decided NOT to use Flash when designing my website because there would always be a large percentage of potential clients that I could not reach if I used Flash. My website could have been cooler. It could have taken less time to design. However, I decided to design the website so that I could reach nearly everyone.
So, when I browse to a website that only supports Flash, I wonder if the developer of the website and owner of the company realize how shortsighted they are being. Millions and millions of people simply cannot see their website, no matter how cool or awesome it looks.
If Apple decides not to support Flash on the iPad, I support and appreciate their decision. I believe they are trying to make a global statement. I bet that the iPhone and the iPad will be a catalyst and convince many people to modify their websites to work without requiring Flash. I bet it already has.
So, I believe that the argument shouldn't be to convince Apple to implement Flash on the iPod and iPad. It really should be to convince people to stop using Flash.
Just my $0.02.
kill it softly so people can watch hulu in the meantime maybe. silverlight support for netflix? own up to the war and lack of support too?
i respect your opinion and hate flash... but it's everywhere...