Early Adopters? Buddy, this is 2nd generation. There is no early adoption excuse anymore. The SDK was pushed back for 6 months, 2.0 was pushed back.
Don't be a fanboy and defend Apple's decision-making without thought. It was apple that said the SDK/sandbox/app approval solution would provide crash-free apps and stable phones. This was promised since September of last year.
So don't tell me, I am not reasonable to expect with all of Apple's protection on apps, a crash-free solution like they promised.
Your argument is analogous to "DON'T LIKE THE COUNTRY, MOVE OUT".. it simply doesn't work.
It's a valid issue. 3g was an early adoption scenario. SDK was pushed back to make sure it was release-ready. 2.0 had to wait so it would would only be crap instead of the mega-crap that it could have been. Why are you so incredibly impatient when it comes to support?
iPhone is a mobile PC to a certain extent. Desktop PC's and even to a lesser extent OSX machines are crash-prone too. It's a fact of life and while it would be nice if it were 100% crash-proof, I don't have that level of expectation considering the complexity of the device.
This is not an Apple-fanboy issue. It's more of a patience issue with any company that does their best to support bleeding edge products. Apple is always trying to make an already good product even better. How many other companies jumps through hoops to please their user-base after they purchase something? Not very many that I know.
In this case, Apple is trying to get their device to work at a level you folks want it to. They don't necessarily have to but I'm pleased - and very patient about it. If an app causes my phone to crash, I don't use it. I'm very happy with my iPhone. Issues aside, it's still a fantastic product. I see it maturing bit by bit however you folks find every reason to sledgehammer them into the ground.
Whatever happened to those days where an unhappy consumer would just return their purchase? Obviously you must have liked it enough to keep it after the 2-week refund window has passed. I'm not pointing a finger at you saying "Shame on you, it's your own d**n fault".
You don't have to leave the country.

Just show some patience and be fortunate that Apple is one of those rare companies that actually continues to make a good product even better. Even if "better" means just getting it to work consistently on a day-to-day basis.
It's not the end of the world. There are more important things in life to stress out about than blowing a gasket because Texas-holdem ends abnormally once in a while.