Charging your phone in the daytime is one option to allow you to listen to music all night through the lightning port.That's a joke right?
You can't really be that...
Buying a separate adapter with a passthrough for charging is another (if they don't exist now, they soon will).
If you have headphones with a 3.5mm plug, you can use Apple's charging dock.
I'm really having a hard time getting upset about your dilemma.