mattye let's analyze your "true multitasking" statement because you'll quickly see that it makes no sense.
First the definition (within a computing context but it generally applies elsewhere)
Multitasking
the ability of a computer to operate several programs at the same time
So if the iPhone OS 4 can run Pandora, or Skype, or a GPS, or gather location info or complete a download in the background while you compute on a separate app in the foreground by definition how can it be "false"?
Now you state that Android apps can "do whatever they want" well what exactly is that? Applications are all going to be tasked based so my question is "what tasks do I need to accomplish in the background are not supported by the iPhone OS 4?"
Many of you "true multitasking" people haven't really thought about the logistics of your statement and thus you end up cannot fully explain what multitasking means if there truly is a "true" vs "false" version.
There are many apps that coalesce multiple social networking sites for instance Sociable will gather Facebook, Twitter, Flickr, Digg, Reddit and Instaper all in one app.
The widgits are by and large gimmicky which is why Apple doesn't get into them. If you're a young 20 something with not a whole lot of commitments and a bunch of social time then widgets are probably more important to you. If you're a 30, 40, 50 something with a beyond FT job, kids that have school and medical appointmens. Widgets are not cutting it.
To each his own. However with iPhone OS 4 no one can realistically argue that iPhone OS is not the equal to the Android and vice versa. The widgets and doing stuff from the home screen are window dressing.