Not even close to the same thing.
I cannot get a front-row concert experience later, or have it delivered at home, at it be the EXACT same experience.
We're talking about a phone here.
To each his own, I'm not sure why it bothers people. What effect does it have on you to see people lined up for a phone? It's a cool experience to line up on launch day to get your iPhone. I haven't been able to do it the last few years but wouldn't mind doing it again.