The reason I asked, was because you were not clear in your first post when you said you were ‘forced’, naturally one wants to know how somebody is forced to upgrade a phone, especially being the consumer makes the choice on what they’re upgrading to, not the manufacturer.
It wasn’t a surprise there was no SE 2, and I don’t think Apple ever intended it to be that way. I think the original SE that was introduced in March 2016 was to be a limited edition model, which speaks volumes that was only offered for just over two years.
For the record, whatever you decide to upgrade to, is your own prerogative, the iPhone 7 was never ‘disappointing’. That was the first iPhone that actually offered stereo speakers, water resistance and a dual camera (Yes, those are considerable features over the 6s). It was a very successful iPhone in it’s own right, not sure how you can classify this as disappointing.
Yeah, I wasn't clear, I agree.

But I was prefacing my post to acknowledge nobody is really forced to buy anything...except maybe health and car insurance.
I consider the 7 very disappointing from my personal experience - at $379, a refurbished-by-Apple (aka, brand new, IMHO) iPhone 7 was a pretty darn good deal. But I thought the battery life on my Apple refurb'd 7 was horrendous and awfully disappointing. Only after buying the 7 did I search online for some scathing battery life reviews of the 7 vs. 8 or X. I could see the % decline as I watched the screen, even when turning off all the luxuries I mention in another response below....amazing how self-defeating it felt to turn off convenience features in a high $$ phone just to get battery life close to the advertised "up to" values....It's very hard to not expect those #'s as a customer while using at least most of the convenience features...
My disappointment in the 7 was cemented by two factors:
1) the battery life on my 8 is pretty amazing, by comparison.
2) the wireless charging offered by the 8 makes the headphone jack omission much more tolerable than it was for the 7, as very key for me is to be able to use wired headphones while charging simultaneously, without having to buy that ridiculous dual-charge/headphone lightning dongle....
I had a 7 Plus and that phone gave me unbelievable battery life. Did you have background app refresh on?? What about screen brightness. There are many different factors into why or why not the battery can last or not. My XS Max is really good. Even better than the 7 Plus I previously owned. I’m one that always keeps the screen as dim as possible. But that’s just me.
Makes sense for your 7+. Completely different battery for the 7. Oh, I know about the factors, ha ha. My screen brightness was below 45% always, my background app refresh was wifi-only, I always closed apps I wasn't using even with completely contradictory advice online & from Apple store geniuses regarding closing or not-closing background apps, I had mail on manual fetch only. I.e., I turned off all the bells and whistles that make a phone exhilarating to use but which would likely have given me a 3 hour battery life.
I took it back for an 8 and noticed an incredible uptick in battery life/% throughout the day.
Exactly my point. Those features that the XR is missing with 3D Touch, higher resolution display and dual camera is not important to the un-informed consumer. What is important is that they see Face ID, new form factor similar to the XS, six new colors and the cheap(er) price tag. Those are the things that they understand and will be attracted to. Most have no idea what 3D Touch executes and the 828P LCD on the XR is similar to the iPhone 8, which is still a solid display.
Though I agree with most of your post, isn't it also possible that 3D Touch, higher resolution display and dual camera may not be important
even to informed consumers?? Higher resolution on an already high resolution screen? Some might see no value in paying up for gains hardly discernible to the human eye beyond those of the 1st gen retina screen... Heck, I can't even tell the difference between 720 & 1080 on a 50" plasma, let alone feel gains in resolution increase on a 5" phone. As for "even better pictures," couldn't there be a point of diminishing returns there too? A $400 phone with, say, iPhone 8-levels of battery life & processing performance (to keep up with newer iOS's) could be well-loved over anything with 3D touch, Face ID, etc. etc.
But...without said ~$400 smaller-screen "base" iPhone, there's no chance for the consumer to consider it.
Ditto.
I bet many people skipped the 8 and 8+ upgrade last year considering the new phones "boring", while the new design was too expensive.
This time they can have a new design at the usual price point, Face ID is faster this year so you don't miss TouchID and more apps are taking advantage of the new display.
This forum helps me realize how out of touch I am with how others shop for phones. Do you assume some think the 8 is "boring" due to minimal improvements/differences from the 7? I think that at minimum, the addition of wireless charging reduces vastly the attractiveness of the 7, given the heave-ho of the headphone jack and its resulting inconvenience for me and many.
Apple has never really done much with 3D touch, and I think the average person doesn't even use it. I also think people upgrading from a 6s though 8 are going to see the brighter edge-to-edge screen on the XR and think it looks great.
I completely agree with you about 3D touch vs. consumer awareness. In fact I think Apple needs to completely rethink a few things as iPhones get increasingly jam-packed with esoteric features that are
hardly obvious. Couple that with their "no instruction booklet needed mindset" and vastly-reduced-intuitiveness of UI since iOS 6 since Jony & others felt "nobody needs certain helpful UIx cues anymore," and it's a perfect recipe for (I think) the majority of users to have little to no idea why to choose a 7 over an 8 over an Xr over an Xs, let alone know how to use their phones to the fullest once they choose one. Or even know they should jump on youtube to learn how to use their phone's "hidden" features.
Apple's thinking that even soccer moms need Porsche Cayenne's... It's gotta come to be that Apple introduces a sub-$500 "low cost" option, as the trend towards upping the content and upping the $$$ still doesn't seem long-term sustainable to me.