I love all this mob talk and shakedown talk.
You know
you agreed to their terms, right? Nobody
has to develop for iOS.
Seriously though... would Apple simply lowering their fees a little (or a lot) help you? Or do you want to leave the App Store completely and rely on submitting and maintaining your iOS apps on 3 or 4 different app stores and websites?
I can see the appeal of letting Apple handling everything and simply subtract their cut... especially if it was lower. Sort of an all-in-one package. It's easy.
I'm not sure the average small developer would be interested in setting up their
own servers, payment systems, and whatnot and deal with the hassles that come with that.