I ended up just wiping the machine and doing a fresh install of 14.2.1 and OCLP 1.3.0. So far it's been a couple days and no freezing. Also resolved the monitor issues.Is there a certain amount of time before this happens on average? I updated my 2012 last week and it seems OK but I haven't had the time to test it as much as I would like but so far, no major issues.
VMware Fusion Player 13.5 does not work as others have mentioned unless there's something I missed regarding that.