Okay I will say this a different way.
You are wrong and your issues must be your own.
I do a heck of lot more than web surf and check email on my computer.
There are not a lot of little things that are difficult to do on the Mac. Some things do take some adjusting but being able to do a proper web search finds you most of the answers quickly.
If you really find Mac OSX so hard to navigate after using windows, it has to be a personal problem. Fundamentally OSX is easier to use than Windows is.
Please name several of these "little things" you found hard to master on the mac.
You obviously do not get my point at all. Not one bit. I do not feel like re trying to explain it. I'm talking about the little differences and you take it as if I'm saying that I find OSX hard to use. Forget about OSX, lets talk about a similar problem that certain people had when moving from Windows Xp to Vista or Windows 7. It's basically Windows, but since Microsoft changed a lot of little things, a lot of XP users stayed in XP. The little things that those XP user were used to doing without thinking were now different, and that can be annoying. Now imagine if those XP users decided to move to OSX.
So what makes OSX fundamentally easier to use than Windows? Let me guess, you're going to say viruses, blue screen, fud, etc. But lets pretend both OS' are working just fine, what makes it fundamentally easier?