Yes I sent an email to Uncle Steve. I guess I could say its more than a crush. It started that way, but its more of a In love with her thing. She's not in love with me obviously. Well, I'm going to do homework now.
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Seriously? This is all you've got to worry about? And it's only been since September?
People are losing their houses because they've been out of work for years. Others have families that are only being fed thanks to social welfare and the kindness of friends. Still more people are watching relatives or friends die slow painful deaths from cancer, AIDS, or any number of other debilitating diseases. Even worse those relatives or friends are actually going through the pain themselves.
Not having a go at you. Just trying to put things in perspective. You're young, and pretty much worry free from the sound of things. Get out in the sunshine and kick a ball around. It'll make you feel better for a couple of hours. Do it enough and you'll feel better for longer.
People are losing their houses because they've been out of work for years. Others have families that are only being fed thanks to social welfare and the kindness of friends. Still more people are watching relatives or friends die slow painful deaths from cancer, AIDS, or any number of other debilitating diseases. Even worse those relatives or friends are actually going through the pain themselves.
Not having a go at you. Just trying to put things in perspective. You're young, and pretty much worry free from the sound of things. Get out in the sunshine and kick a ball around. It'll make you feel better for a couple of hours. Do it enough and you'll feel better for longer.
My friend John did ask her out for me as I don't have te confidence to do so. She said she considers me a friend.
I didn't know we were friends. Probably a polite way of saying leave me alone. 
Don't waste your time on one girl that you obviously can't get. I think every guy makes this mistake and regrets it later. Be friends and forget the relationship and move on.
So not only did you give her $11 for a present, but you got your friend to ask her out for you? Come on man, wisen up.My friend John did ask her out for me as I don't have te confidence to do so. She said she considers me a friend.
My friend John did ask her out for me as I don't have te confidence to do so. She said she considers me a friend.
Ok. If you can't talk to her enough to ask her out, what is the point?? How are y'all going to hang out and even interact together?
This doesn't sound like you like her. Sounds like an obsession with the thought of her.
Do your school work, get a job when you turn 15 and make money (save it up), hang out with the guys playing sports or video games or what not, stay away from drugs, graduate, then go off to college. Then try the whole looking at girls thing again.
I don't even see the point of dating or thinking about girls before the age of 18... honestly I wouldn't even deal with them until age 21-22.
There was about a years differnece in between. Should I have given her $10 or $14 instead?
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I don't agree here just from personal experience but who knows
I agree for the most part when looking back
Disgraceful! (Maybe it's one of those counting dogs.)Maybe you just haven't hit her price yet.
Anyway, I'd listen to the dog.
A) It's fun.
B) It's practice. How are you going to be emotionally prepared for it at 22 if you haven't had any experiences like the OP? Plus, you'll have no game whatsoever.
Im 15, i know how u feel, just tryn get over it its a complete waste of time honestly, i have learned to stop liking a girl its a waste of time when she wont go out with you. ON the other hand. If your feeling lonely the dog does seem attracted to your crotch?
P.S also, i dont think i ant to date until i can drive because i dont want mommy and daddy driving me to the movies
There was about a years differnece in between. Should I have given her $10 or $14 instead?
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Kiddo, take it from a guy who has made mistakes; don't bother with dating until college. It is utterly futile.
Second, chicks like confidence. Don't be arrogant, but be sure of yourself. It may not make sense to you now but it will.
Third - grades. Chicks like men with a decent minds, believe it or not. They also like the face you have a certain drive to get things done, and done well.
Dude, your 14 years old, you barely know her and like you said have hardly hung out with her. How do you think she could make a decision to even want to go out with you? This is just a case of infatuation, go do something with your buddies focus on school hell buy something for yourself to occupy you and move on. There are PLENTY of fish out there for you. If you were so scared to chat and hang out then definetely there wasn't something there. You must be completely comfortable with a girl before thinking of taking it past friendship.
There was about a years differnece in between. Should I have given her $10 or $14 instead?
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The cash probably felt like obligation to her, as opposed to say a gift.
If this girl is hot etc then no doubt she has other guys chasing her also? Are you sure she does not have a boyfriend already?
Yes be friends usually means precisely that a mild rejection. Keep pushing it at her and she will get pissed and mild will go bye bye.
Within another 4 years or so, your list of hotties, your interested in will be 10x times as large.
Quite often life has a way, at a later date of showing you what could have been.....With the result being "wow glad I dodged that one!
Sounds like she's a lesbian. Move on bro, I remember feeling the same way as you, then he moved to NY. After a while I sort of just forgot about him.
Move on bro, I remember feeling the same way as you, then he moved to NY. After a while I sort of just forgot about him.
I don't thnk pissing her off is much of a problem. I haven't even said high to her at all in person since Last October. I should point out I had a crush on another girl in 7th grade that kinda faded out. I had a crush on the current girl since September 2008, but it was so small, I wasn't sure. But then in March 2009, I was sure. I do know her quite well. I just don't talk to her much. She might have a boyfriend, but try don't last long. I know two of them. They didn't go out longer than a month. She dumped one, and got dumped in the other. Obviously teens don't take love seriously yet. Sadly I do, but she doesn't understand. At my school when kids break up, it's no big deal. Half of then don't care when the breakup. I'm suprised hearts aren't destoyed.
I don't think she is. She has had boyfriends before.
Sounds like she's a lesbian.
I don't think she is. She has had boyfriends before.
Either do something about it, or move on.
You haven't spoken to her since October?? Well, no surprise you havn't seen any indication that she might like you back! Put your shoes on, kick her loud and perverted dog out of the way and go talk to her.
I had my first girlfriend when I was 14. Looking back I definitely wasn't mature enough for a relationship, but that doesn't mean I regret it. You make mistakes, and you learn stuff. Everything you do wrong helps you towards doing it right the next time.
You haven't spoken to her since October?? Well, no surprise you havn't seen any indication that she might like you back! Put your shoes on, kick her loud and perverted dog out of the way and go talk to her.
I had my first girlfriend when I was 14. Looking back I definitely wasn't mature enough for a relationship, but that doesn't mean I regret it. You make mistakes, and you learn stuff. Everything you do wrong helps you towards doing it right the next time.