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Holy ****.... why are so many parents like this!? My parent's never bought me a computer at all, but damn....

As a related story, both of my parents have PC's and they are constantly having problems with ****, and they are really confused by Windows. They've gone through 3-4 PC's each while I've own the same Mac G5 desktop, and whenever they actually need **** done, they have me do it on my Mac. But for some reason, they are really not interested in getting a mac themselves. Every time they are about to buy a new computer, they ask for my advice, because I 'know what I'm talking about'. I tell 'em to go with Apple, but they always come home with some ********, low end PC.

And then they say "Oh, I don't have to worry about viruses, 'cause this one came with free norton!"

EYES ROLL!

Take whatever computer they give you - DON'T open it - SELL IT - and then put it towards the Apple. Grow some balls and tell them that you are sick of them making decisions for you that they are not qualified to make. Tell 'em that you appreciate the help, but you are a grown man, and if they wanna help, they can help you YOUR way!

Seriously, try taking a stand. It sounds like it might be good for your relationship overall honestly!

halcyo

Kid to Kid advisory: Do NOT follow this advice.


Oh, and I thought this picture would be appropriate for this thread.

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@mosx: too long, did not read.

but vista isn't that bad. honestly. i just downgraded my PC lappy to XP because vista was BURNING my computer to death. it ran so hot, and my wi-fi card burned so badly that i couldn't touch the trackpad to move around the scroller! crazy stuff. but now my lappy FLIES with xp. . too bad it will soon be replaced with a shiny new macbook.

haha, but i've given all my advice, and i hope the starter of this thread (bless your heart for triggering this discussion) convinces their parents that macs are most "definitely a gift from God" (direct quote from a customer I had today after i shared my excitement with her about getting my first mac)!

you will get a wonderful machine with a mac everytime. no doubt. :)
 
1 The botched repairs and bad components ARE Apples fault.

Your problems are the result of bad and failing hardware. Not Windows.



2 I guess you're the only person you know with OS X? I deal with around 100 people on a regular basis that use Macs and a good 3 out of 4 will complain about something in OS X at one point or another.



3 If you want to talk about childish arguing, then go talk to "dadsgravy"

1 there is an obvious contradiction in the logic you have stated here.

2 i know at least 15 people off the top of my head (just friends nearby) who run os x and are completely happy with it. and that's not including people at my college (dartmouth) who have posted many recommendations on facebook to incoming freshmen. and 3 percent of people complaining about "something" does not strike me as major, since one of the most common complaints is the perceived lack of a right click.

3
this is exactly what i was referring to when i was asking mosx to refrain from adding needless venom to his posts. i agree with your sentiments about os x, however, degrading and insulting comments are NOT the best way to persuade others to convert.


please don't. this thread was started as an appeal for help, not as a place for the two of you to rant about the intellectual inferiorities of the other.
i did. please read my entire post before making assumptions about it.

this is getting out of hand. this is not the first time i have seen mosx hijack a thread looking for support of os x and turned it into a flaming battle over whether os x or windows is superior, and i've only been a member for two months. is it possible for a moderator to step in?

to the op, i apologize. as many of the other members have said, good luck. again, be civil and have rational reasons to back you up.
 
tell your parents...

Tell your parents the only thing pcs have more of is bad games they probably don't want you playing anyway and viruses.
 
Tell your parents the only thing pcs have more of is bad games they probably don't want you playing anyway and viruses.

One of those bad games is called "Vista".

I heard it has really steep system requirements just to run at sluggish rates.
 
@mosx

What I cannot comprehend about 85% of your posts is the actually thought process behind your assumptions. What really makes me reread the post to understand is where you talk about your macbook and how it was never fixed it froze here, it froze doing this and that, blah blah. But yet you respond to someone else about how their blank hard drive was a hardware issue. Clearly, his hard drive and/or memory were bad. A 10 year could figure this out. But what I don't understand, is you can't take that same rationalization and apply it to your macbook. Clearly, your memory is most likely defective, but could be the logic board, etc if it freezes and kernel panics. It's not OS X that is causing that.

The other point that you i guess misunderstand, being that you have supposedly have worked on X number of machines or X number of years, is you are using the fact that your superdrive malfunctioned to combat the theory that Macs are better theory and heres my proof to debunk it. Well...any component can go bad in any machine. It also sounds like your macbook was the first intel macbook that came out or one of the earlier ones. Just like any other company, first models are kind of like the guinea pig. A new design introduces numerous possible design flaws. Any company has this issue. Dell, HP, Asus, whatever. It doesnt matter how makes the machine, issues can arise.

It also seems like you think that the components in the macbook are made by Apple themselves. The fact of the matter is that the so called superdrive, depending on your model, is just a Mashita DVD-RW. You can put this in your PC laptop. Theres no difference. So this could have been in an HP or Dell laptop and cause the same problem. It has nothing to do with the fact that its in an Apple machine, or more specifically, your Macbook.

If you want to get into defective machines with companies, I hate to break it to you, but HP and Dell both have their huge share of faulty designs just as much as Apple, if no more due to the shear amount of models and machines they have compared to Apple.

If you are going to pick apart everyone elses experience and make assumptions, at least prove your point with a rational explanation that is clear.

I am not saying your opinion is wrong nor am I saying that you don't know what you are talking about, but this thread is about the OP wanting to get laptop X instead of laptop Y that his parents want to get him.

@smootling

A good point of advice. Try the machine out at an Apple store or somewhere you can use it. This thread really shouldn't be changing your mind because the experiences listed here and the issue some people have had with their Mac are the same exact issues that someone else has had with their PC/Windows laptop. It really isnt a question about build quality or whos better, because when the smoke clears, an Apple is just as good as an HP which is just as good as a Dell. What it really comes down to, is what has what you want? Do you want to do video? Gaming? Surfing the internet? Do you need feature X or feature Y. Just make a decision on something that has what you want.
 
@mosx

Also, your comparison of Vista to XP and Mac OS X. You say your games run better and faster in Vista. I really would like to see where this is valid. What machine is this one? What are the specs? 32 or 64bit? If this is true, then you must be lucky with your setup. Vista uses a good deal more memory to run than XP and OS X do. When its all said and done, OS X manages memory better than XP or Vista hands down. If you want an explanation, we would have to start another thread about operating system structure. I don't know where you get this 10x better video performance, as I have all three operating systems running. I'm sorry, but I do not see this drastic difference.
 
When parents say, "compatible with Windows" what they're really saying is "does it run Microsoft Office". Your instant response should be, "yes it runs Microsoft Office - and it is compatible with Microsoft Office on Windows. That tends to shut down the conversation fast :D
 
When parents say, "compatible with Windows" what they're really saying is "does it run Microsoft Office". Your instant response should be, "yes it runs Microsoft Office - and it is compatible with Microsoft Office on Windows. That tends to shut down the conversation fast :D

In my experience they ask about Outlook Express too :p
 
Like I said before, if your parents are concerned about price, do NOT take them into an Apple store. The numbers compared to dells and weekly sale prices in the Frys ad will make them run, no matter how much a "genius" (which equals salesman who would do anything to sell a computer) bathes them with good things about their product.

You're best bet: have a computer knowledgable friend of the family - someone they trust, give them advice about which computers are good. They can offer advice on which is the best brands, and of course if he/she knows anything about apple computers, there will be some polite and gentle persuasion in that area for you.


When parents say, "compatible with Windows" what they're really saying is "does it run Microsoft Office". Your instant response should be, "yes it runs Microsoft Office - and it is compatible with Microsoft Office on Windows. That tends to shut down the conversation fast :D


Oh while parents may be thinking this...I have had run ins with some programs for medical school that are only PC. That and filesharing/school printers/some webcast and interactive media/ act funny on my mac. So...macs aren't impervious to all arguments. Sorry.
 
Like I said before, if your parents are concerned about price, do NOT take them into an Apple store. The numbers compared to dells and weekly sale prices in the Frys ad will make them run, no matter how much a "genius" (which equals salesman who would do anything to sell a computer) bathes them with good things about their product.

You're best bet: have a computer knowledgable friend of the family - someone they trust, give them advice about which computers are good. They can offer advice on which is the best brands, and of course if he/she knows anything about apple computers, there will be some polite and gentle persuasion in that area for you.

How about taking them on a tour of MacRumors... find a bunch of threads about normal people who use Macs...

Maybe then they will understand.

OP, keep us updated, too.
 
Like I said before, if your parents are concerned about price, do NOT take them into an Apple store. The numbers compared to dells and weekly sale prices in the Frys ad will make them run, no matter how much a "genius" (which equals salesman who would do anything to sell a computer) bathes them with good things about their product.

You're best bet: have a computer knowledgable friend of the family - someone they trust, give them advice about which computers are good. They can offer advice on which is the best brands, and of course if he/she knows anything about apple computers, there will be some polite and gentle persuasion in that area for you.

Oh while parents may be thinking this...I have had run in with some programs for medical school that are only PC. That and filesharing/school printers/some webcast and interactive media/ act funny on my mac. So...macs aren't impervious to all arguments. Sorry.

Well, the question is; who is paying for it? why hasn't this lad got a part time job? and where is his savings? is his parents willing to lend him the money and for him to pay his parents back over a year?
 
Tell them it's Apple or nothing. And that they can rest assured that if they buy you a Dell they'll be wasting their money because you have no intentions of ever using it and that in the end you'll just buy the Mac on your own anyway.
 
wow, this thread has become quite "interesting":rolleyes:

well, if i had the choice between a dell for free and a macbook for 1200 bucks i'd go with the dell.

if you're careful and if you don't do anything special you get 90% as much fun out of a dell as you would get out of a mac. 90% for 0% investment is pretty good.

seriously, i'm typing this on a lenovo that i got for free. i installed safari, itunes, picasa, photoshop, ms office, firefox, skype, a few scientific programs i need/want, i have mobileme for calendar, adressbook, email, idisk.

i only miss imovie but i don't use it too often.

to the OP if he/she is still reading this thread after all the flaming of the fanboys:

save your money, negotiate with your parents to get the best notebook from dell they are willing to pay for, take the dell, set it up for what you want, be happy with it for the next two years and then buy a quadcore macbook if you still want to switch.

you obviously don't have much money so don't waste it on a computer that will lose value every day it gets older.

and don't forget to thank your parents for buying you a computer.
 
Oh while parents may be thinking this...I have had run ins with some programs for medical school that are only PC. That and filesharing/school printers/some webcast and interactive media/ act funny on my mac. So...macs aren't impervious to all arguments. Sorry.

Filesharing on a mac is 100% compatible with file shares, file sharing programs, network shares, etc. What happens is security settings might be setup to not work with apple/unix authentication settings. Thats the network administrators poor setup. Same with printers, although I have ran in to some poor drivers for epson printers.
 
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