If AT&T had LTE were I live or the hotspot feature it wouldn't be a problem. They advertise 14.4 Mbps and throttle it down....I think it's AT&T that is abusing there customers.
What did they advertise when you got your unlimited plan years ago? What did they advertise when you signed the contract for the unlimited plan? What did they advertise when you signed that contract knowing tethering was not an option? Interesting how people find a half dozen ways to abuse/break contracts, but when the carrier stays within the contract but executes a clause in it, they are the abusers. Very interesting perspective...