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Great posts already, just want to echo: USE A CONDOM!


Sadly, people set their standards lower. I've been having sex since the end of middle school (a mistake I've realized) and I made hella sure that my wife never had sex before. I can't imagine having a partner who has had casual sex with someone besides me. Good thing she doesn't think the same.

Sounds like your wife set her standards pretty low to accept that sort of double-standard BS.
 
Can I be the first person to finally ask for pictures? :cool:

I mean all this advice is coming from a place where its assumed she's worth losing your virginity to!?

If you want that kind of advice from this kind of forum, I think its only fair we all get to evaluate everything including looks not just personal past history.
 
Not always.

But a LOT more than you think it does, Jimmi. Do you have any idea how many married guys are on the DL? You would be shocked, trust me. I've been hit on by more married guys than I can count.

I was with a BF for five years, and we used condoms every single time. He always claimed to be monogamous- I know I was. Guess what? Turned out he was an alcoholic, just very good at hiding it. And just what do you think he did on binges?
 
She's not a dirty girl. She was very careful with both guys, and actually insisted that the first guy get tested. The second guy was her ex.

Am I being too paranoid? It seems like she's definitely clean, but can I know for sure without her taking the test? Even if both guys come out clean, is there still some way that she could have something?

3 guys (counting you) in all of 2 months time? Stay away.
 
She prefers to not take a test herself because of the invasive nature of them.

Dude this would be an automatic red flag for me; just saying. Also you're assuming she is telling you the truth about who she has and hasn't been with. As a rule of thumb, "when in doubt, DO NOT pull it out!" :rolleyes:
 
Just a little update.

I hung out with her today. I was more attracted to the man behind the counter at the deli, than I was to her. It seems that no camera can capture her ugliness. And yes, we met online, and I had seen several pictures of her, but none of them looked as bad as the reality. It was honestly a relief looking at the handsome face of the guy behind the counter. And I am 110% straight.

So yeah. For now, I remain a virgin. :)
 
Just a little update.

I hung out with her today. I was more attracted to the man behind the counter at the deli, than I was to her. It seems that no camera can capture her ugliness. And yes, we met online, and I had seen several pictures of her, but none of them looked as bad as the reality. It was honestly a relief looking at the handsome face of the guy behind the counter. And I am 110% straight.

So yeah. For now, I remain a virgin. :)

:facepalm:
 
If you're not attracted, then you're not attracted. Just don't be a dick about it.

I'm glad she didn't sleep with you, and I'm glad you're still a virgin, because apparently, you kind of suck as a human being.
 
I'm not being a dick about it. Everybody who i've told it to in person like this has found it hilarious. It's not something personal against her. It's just a funny way of describing my experience. Jeez.
 
Just a little update.

I hung out with her today. I was more attracted to the man behind the counter at the deli, than I was to her. It seems that no camera can capture her ugliness. And yes, we met online, and I had seen several pictures of her, but none of them looked as bad as the reality. It was honestly a relief looking at the handsome face of the guy behind the counter. And I am 110% straight.

So yeah. For now, I remain a virgin. :)
Sounds like the human race, especially this poor, misguided girl, can breathe a sigh of relief.
 
If you're not attracted, then you're not attracted. Just don't be a dick about it.

I'm glad she didn't sleep with you, and I'm glad you're still a virgin, because apparently, you kind of suck as a human being.

Okay, now, like a rockslide, everybody's gonna jump on me and say i'm terrible because of what I said. This is a false conclusion, but since the rockslide has started, there isn't much I can do but get the hell out of here.

Thanks again for the help!
 
Sounds like the human race, especially this poor, misguided girl, can breathe a sigh of relief. What a dickwad.

How can you say something like that? You're assuming things about her and about me, without even meeting either of us! It's just a projection of your mind. I don't believe this.....
 
It sounds like the young lady in question has had a very narrow escape. Good for her.

Please! PLEASE! Everybody just slow down and listen!! Prove to me that a human rockslide of false assumptions CAN be brought to a stop by sheer awareness!

I know what I said was really mean. It is not a reflection of who I am!

Thank you.
 
How can you say something like that? You're assuming things about her and about me, without even meeting either of us! It's just a projection of your mind. I don't believe this.....

Let's summarize:

You parade a girls sex life on the 'net
You discuss your sexual appetite for someone you never met
You trash the girl in the end

And you are outraged that someone has something negative to say about you?

:rolleyes:

Woof, Woof - Dawg
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Okay you're right. It's only natural that you guys would come to the conclusion you have about me. It doesn't make it correct.

What can I say?
 
How can you say something like that? You're assuming things about her and about me, without even meeting either of us! It's just a projection of your mind. I don't believe this.....

not to be rude.. but you should probably stop accusing people of assuming things.. esp. when you just assumed this girl was attractive, and only had two partners. and you also had never met her.
 
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