You clearly haven't used a recent phone running Android. I'm on my third year now using Pixel phones alongside my usual Apple devices and I can tell you that Android, at least on the Pixel phones, is buttery smooth with far less bugs and crashes than I've experienced in the same timeframe on my iOS devices... The fact that you also get a far superior more flexible OS with Android is an added bonus.Android? Nope. No thanks. I like software that works. Android is still a mess and a security risk. Less than no interest.
With regards to security Pixel users receive monthly updates and I've never experienced any issues whatsoever.
Having owned every single iPhone since day one I can honestly tell you that Android has surpassed Apple in recent years and if you spend some time on a new Pixel phone you might change your mind too.
There is an exciting world outside Apple's walled garden if you just give it a chance.