It seems like Steve feels he shouldn't be questioned. Bill Gates, whatever one thinks of him, handled questioning and criticism much better and he had a whole lot more of both than Steve ever did. Gates would alway be relentlessly positive. Despite Steve's complaint that the journalist is negative, in that exchange Steve sounded even more negative.
Granted his manner can be abrupt and brutally honest. I can accept it - in his case - since it's backed by demonstrable ability and a clear desire to make great products before time runs out. He is, no doubt, acutely aware that life is short. On the other hand, if Jobs had no track record and was just being an aloof, autocratic jerk, then I'd be agreeing with ya.
Bottom line: In the brutal world of business, directness, clarity, and experience all count. We don't normally see that, because all too many CEOs hide behind their PR departments (often at Legal's insistence).