Well this was quite the conversation. Nice reading it.
Happy the OP "solved" his problem. I hope it's all going to be ok. I don't know what I would have done in this situation. Probably would have played the "good and honest guy" card, hoping for a free solution to the problem. It's not like I would have a hard time playing that "card" though, since that's who I am. I've had good experiences with being honest.
Though I must say, the older I get, the more I see that the world isn't that simple. I know a person that is good, honest, smart and really deserves a good life. Though person "A" only seems to get rewarded with bad things and a bad life. On the other hand, I know a person "B" which if karma points existed, would be in the minus a lot. I'm not going into detail, but he is in a way the opposite of the person A. Though life seems to reward person B constaintly, everything goes well. Yes a lot can still change in 10 years, but still. Sometimes I just see goodness being punished and "badness" being rewarded.
Happy the OP "solved" his problem. I hope it's all going to be ok. I don't know what I would have done in this situation. Probably would have played the "good and honest guy" card, hoping for a free solution to the problem. It's not like I would have a hard time playing that "card" though, since that's who I am. I've had good experiences with being honest.
Though I must say, the older I get, the more I see that the world isn't that simple. I know a person that is good, honest, smart and really deserves a good life. Though person "A" only seems to get rewarded with bad things and a bad life. On the other hand, I know a person "B" which if karma points existed, would be in the minus a lot. I'm not going into detail, but he is in a way the opposite of the person A. Though life seems to reward person B constaintly, everything goes well. Yes a lot can still change in 10 years, but still. Sometimes I just see goodness being punished and "badness" being rewarded.