My order says:
"Your order is being shipped. iPhone pre-orders placed on Oct 11 or prior are targeted for delivery by Oct. 14 or Oct 15. Any iPhone orders placed on Oct 12 or later will take 3 to 8 business days for delivery. Click on the shipping tracking number to track the progress of your order. It make take 24 hours for your tracking number to be active. For all other orders, please allow 3-8 days for delivery."
Still says ready for UPS on the UPS site. And I'm going to be at NYC comic-con all day friday/saturday/sunday.... not sure if UPS would leave it at my door or not... anyone know if they require signatures?
Yes, every product I've had shipped from Apple usually requires a signature. I know with FedEx there was a form that could be filled out and left attached to your front door basically authorizing them to leave it there and you could even suggest a location for them to leave it on your property (assuming that it's easily accessable by the courier).
I'm not sure if there's such an option for UPS so you're either looking at trying to have a friend/neighbor wait for it for you, or worst case if nobody is home it'll be returned to your local UPS location and you can pick it up from there.