My personal view about it:
--Flash--
This "thing" has been the subject of so many discussions. Major problem I see is that it is THE major instability plugin for every browser around. Ok, good programers, good program. You're right there. But try to have your PHONE crashing or halting because of a flash and you'll understand why they are not supporting it.
Whenever there is a risk to change the main focus of the device, they will NOT implement it. In a computer you can kill the browser, in an iPhone or even the iPad, I wonder how many people know how to force an application to quit.
Some said already: it is a proprietary technology. Adobe does what it wants with it, and that would mean saying they should do whatever they want with the internet and pricing for you to write to it.
Flash is a great thing, but I particularly hate it, and would like to see it gone. I already use ClickToFlash and it is awesome to be able to browse the web without that ****. If you want to play Farmville great, but honestly, you don't need flash to use the web.
I access the web for information, not to watch and wait the damn menu do all its twirls until I can finally access what I want.
--Blue-Ray--
Agreed on the "messy" part. The day I stopped buying blue-rays was when I bought one and couldn't use it. Apparently, my Samsung player is not "ready" for the messy java menu implementation on that particular disc.
Oh, did I forget to mention that some discs take about 2 minutes to load?
Blue-Ray was the best way to put a good technology to waste. The media is great, the software and the way they decided to make the menus and all the "piracy protection" crap is where it is messy. I think this was the best way to punish those who actually buy and try to use the players and discs, because the pirates, well, they are enjoying their "downloaded" movies without that crap.
One last thing on this, if you need blue-rays to back up stuff, great! However, sorry to say, a very, VERY small portion of the market wont justify the sales lost due to the price increase for the blue-ray drive.
--iPad--
When I watched the movie about it, I felt in love for it. Not because its greatness in this or that. Screw it. But because for the first time in YEARS, I can have a small device, capable of connecting with keyboards if needed to compose a huge message or text, and I would be able to have my multi-media content with me.
Have you ever tried to watch a movie while on a plane? Unless you go business, sorry to say, it is a mess. Even with a 13" laptop, you can't do it well.
Then when I arrive, I can just take my bluetooth keyboard and start typing a huge mail. I will probably use that thing more than any other device, because I want my DATA with me, contacts, calendar, mail, and when not going business, I can enjoy a movie on a great screen.
Five years ago I had a 17" laptop. Two years ago, it became a 13", and now, it will be an iPad. Games? Sure, that is why I have an iMac 27" i7.
Only thing I miss on the iPad would be a GPS support, because using it as a navigator would be terrific! But maybe I'm missing the target, and that would be better for the iPhone anyway.
--Conclusion--
Flash? Oh yeah, sure, if you want to delay your access to information, have your devices unstable and risking to pay absurds amounts of money for proprietary technology.
Blue-Ray? As a media, great, as a movie container for players, a disgrace. Most HD movies would fit in a DVD, and they just put it on Blue-Ray to avoid "piracy". Grats! You're scaring your customers!
Thought of the day: I wonder when people will complain they can't encode an HD movie with AC3 on their phones.