Uh, he has always been a jerk, for better or worse. He is notoriously frank, rude, sarcastic and to the point. He's like that in every video clip of him available, from the 1970's and on, whether target be Microsoft, Greenpeace, Adobe or just some random individual who happens to get in his way.Steve Jobs is quickly becoming a jerk.
Check out the clip where a guy in a wheelchair asks Steve for his autograph and Steve says "No, sign it yourself" and "Oh, now lay the guilt. Start crying!"
Today, Apple boasts a lot about how 'green' they are, but a few years back when Greenpeace singled out Apple as the most environmentally unfriendly computer manufacturer, Steve told them to "go save some whales".
It's just the way he is, an *sshole who makes great products. The ****** part is common knowledge, and to act all surprised because Steve was rude is like being shocked that Robin Williams tries to be funny and does a lot of voices... it's who he is.